A nice guy is, well, a nice guy.
If an a**hole is masquerading as a nice guy, he isn't a nice guy.
He's an a**hole.
There's no in between, there's no gray area, he's just that, an a**hole, always was from the beginning, chances are you probably just couldn't see it.
That's like me getting with a sweet and well mannered girl, and then when she goes crazy and turns out to be a bitch, I call every nice girl on the planet a "secret bitch."
No, it doesn't work that way. She was just a bitch pretending to be a good girl, and I was the one who fell for it.
Most Helpful Girl
Many guys who coin themselves nice guys, are in fact secret a**holes. It's the difference between an overtly rude person (imagine a loud, boisterous person cursing you out because they dislike you) and a passively rude person (imagine a person pretending to be nice to your face, but trashing you to everyone behind your back). Both of them are very similar but the way they present themselves are 2 totally different things.
Quite a few nice guys come off that way because they'll act one way and pose as a friend, or someone who is nonthreatening, nice...but then when they realize they won't be getting the girl they want, they flip the script and act very jerky and nasty.
I've seennumerous questions on this site like "Girls don't like nice guys, should I be a jerk?" Well if you were truly that nice, why would you consider hurting people and being a jerk? Because you were ACTING like a nice guy, but when that wasn't getting you any ass, you become a jerk. Showing that you werent genuine but fake to suit your agenda.
Guys who are actually good guys aren't called nice guys because they have other positive qualities to speak for them, that we don't just use the term "nice". He isn't obsequious or fake to gain your approval. He's himself, a genuine good person who isn't an a**hole. Those are what girls call "the perfect guys"
- Show AllShow Less