By timid I mean she'll see me when I show up somewhere, and not come talk to me or anything, even though I catch her looking at me, then as the night goes she warms up. It almost seems like she sees me and locks up. I should also mention, I've asked her out before and was turned down. I found out later she was having some medical issues, which were legit, she ended up having surgery for it. But now, I'm a little nervous about putting myself out there again.
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Alcohol primarily removes your inhibitions. It makes you do things you would want to do if you had the balls (or vagina, in this case) to do it. I would say she probably does want to but doesn't have the courage.