His reason is he has been looking for job for months and still can't find anything and he feels so stressful everyday and needs some time alone.
We still talk once a week and last week he told me he finally get a job, I asked about how's his new job few days ago and he said he's very busy then nothing follow up.
I am not sure if I should give me some time about it or he has moved on already? Please give me some advice.
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Why waste your time with him. And his 'excuse' was rather weak. You stood by him while he was looking for a job, which is frankly more than a lot of women do. I've heard of wives walking out on their husbands because they lost their job through no fault of their own. Assuming you are not cohabitating and it sounds like you weren't, he should of had his 'alone time'. Unless you have been nagging him, pressuring him, and I hope you haven't trying to find a job in this economy is bad enough without one's SO putting more pressure, he should show some gratitude that you stayed with him.
No, my guess is he wanted out of the relationship. Breaks never make sense. If the relationship is going bad, the way to fix it is to talk and try to work out the issues causing the problems. You can't do that if you are apart on a break.
If I were in your situation, I'd feel peeved about what she did, and would conclude the break with a breakup. You should just move on.