I told him I need some time alone and that I think for the moment we should be friends because I didn't feel important to him anymore. I'm a bit upset because the last 3 days I've been missing him quite a bit and wanted to talk about perhaps getting back with him as I could see he did in fact care about me from his actions but that he would start having to make more effort if we were going to do so. Does this mean he didn't care at all about me like I first thought because that's what I feel like? We were together a year and he can just replace me in 6 days!? And he seems really happy, doesn't even want to talk about things anymore, he will just respond with things like but you know I have a girlfriend now, she's from Japan hahaha.
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So...you break up with him, end the relationship, and then question his motives when he finds someone else? You can't use things that have the finality of a break-up to test the waters of loyalty or depth of meaning in a relationship because when you say "I am done" most people are not going to spend too much time hoping you change your mind or calling you on the phone. Six days is not a very long time to wait but just how long had you been dating this guy in the first place? What kind of effort were you looking for or not receiving?