I kissed my best friend's boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

Ok I've got myself in a pretty sticky situation that im not proud of but right now im desperate for some guidance and advice with this, For the longest time i had a crush on my best friend's boyfriend, i actually knew him before her and i was the person who "set them up together" i guess you could say, anyway i had a brief fling with this guy before he even knew my best friend and we've always been pretty close but just recently i started to like him again and the attraction between us has returned once again and the other night when he came over to my house to pick up my best friend's phone charger and at the door i lent in to kiss him without thinking and he returned the kiss and it lasted for quite a while, i realized what i had done after though and felt really bad about it, i dont want to ruin my friendship with my best friend but it also hurts seeing those two together, what should i do? Please try to be nice lol i feel bad enough as it is

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[JohnScofield787]

Well... you have a few choices and so does he:

1) Why did he kiss you? If it was a one off mistake, the two of you need to just drop it. If it was more, he needs to drop the gf no matter what.
2) you need to decide whether you tell her or not, but you can bet it is going to hurt her badly.
3) if you do not tell her, is he going to tell her? You would rather it come from her than him.

So basically i am saying that in some ways you need to say something, because she is very likely to find out one way or the other... especially if the two of them ever break up and he says something. Also i find it hard to believe you had NO IDEA what you were doing. Surely you had SOME IDEA that you were leaning in and kissing your best friend's bf. My point in saying this isn't to make you feel bad, but it is to say that is exactly what your friend is going to think when you tell her you accidentally did it.

[sp33d]

"Crawling in my skin, these wounds they will not heal, fear is how I'll fall, confusing what is real"

That's not yours, keep your hands off - or don't, if you want him. Everything goes in love and war.

[Ilovetolove1]

Well you shouldn't hide you should be honest its always the best option