I been with a very kind and loving soul. We met, we hit it off, but at first he would flip flop a lot between his feelings. He would constantly keep tabs on me. I didn't mind at first. Then he started going through my phone behind my back. Which I have no problem about. He thinks i'm constantly flirting either when we go out or via any form of technology. I asked him what his defintion was. He has no clear answer but there's many types. I said listen, I have guy friends. I talk to people when we go out. I don't break boundaries. I'm just nice. If thats considered flirting I don't know what to tell you. He has been through a shit relationship where he has been cheated on numerous times. But now he says he's insecure but got over his insecurites with the past. I quick to say no you didn't otherwise you wouldn't be paranoid about my whereabouts etc. I don't kno w what to do.