I just need to take a breather for a few days and get away from my husband. Right now, I feel like he just takes me for granted, ignores my feelings and really just acts like he doesn't care. He lives the single life. He works as a bartender sometimes as a second job and he doesn't spend much time with me. He doesn't treat me very well and it's been eating me up. I'm depressed, I can't really keep living like this because I'm becoming self-destructive. We have no children, just a dog. I want to just go stay with a friend or at a motel in another town for a week. I won't be telling him where I'm going and will be leaving while he's not home to give him something to think about. To make matters worse, I may be holding his child. I really can't take the stress. Bad idea? I want him to miss me and wonder about me. I've been doing it for the past week and I feel like he hasn't done it since we first started dating.