When a guy defends you, it's at least safe to assume you're friends, right?

I met this guy a couple weeks ago, and we've become friends, pretty much. We exchanged numbers, play fight, all that. But, for a while he was giving me the cold shoulder until today when he sat with me at lunch today, and this ex-friend of mine started calling me a bitch.

He told the guy, "You shouldn't call someone that unless they deserve it, and she doesn't deserve it."

My ex-friend ignores him as he continues saying, for no reason, that I'm a fat bitch.

I say, "So? you're a scrawny bitch!" and my friend that was trying politely to defend me, now says, "Y'know, I might have to punch you." This shuts the guy up and touched my heart.

Before this point I wasn't sure of our relationship since guys are weird, but it's safe to assume that he definitely likes me, even in a platonic way, right?


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What Guys Said 1

  • A lot of guys I know would step in just because its wrong, whether they like the girl or not.


What Girls Said 1

  • Yeah for sure. Someone would't defend another if they didn't care at least a little about them. That's one of my favorite things too ((: When a guy I know defends me. Except when they actually do punch someone, then you have a few other problems to deal with, ahahaa, trust me.

    • Haha, and why would that cause more problems?

    • Well the situation I'm referring to is when one of my friends got suspended from school for getting into a fight with this one guy, but the guy he punched was weeeak and a cry baby! hahah (: