Most Helpful Guy
It's pretty simple: if he's giving you attention or spending time with you, he wants to have sex with you. There's no such thing as a single guy being "just friends" with an attractive girl (or, at least, it's so incredibly rare that you can safely assume that it never happens).
Now, sometimes they want a relationship with you and have feelings for you - which obviously still means they want sex too, but they also want the other stuff. That's quite a bit more rare than just wanting sex, though, so you really have to look at his behavior over a period of time - or just ask him outright what his interest is.1
Most Helpful Girl
Well are you friends with him? Don't get into a relationship with a random guy you know nothing about. If he doesn't try to talk to you about it then it's best to leave it alone, unless you personally want to try and get to see if dating is possible. Overall, you can just sense it. Hanging out with you isn't enough to see if he likes you. Attraction is just attraction. Doesn't mean he wants to date you. Maybe he doesn't feel ready for that. He could be just a shy person overall. Most shy people are just shy period around the opposite sex. The only way to truly know is unless he is doing ALL of that AND is spending a lot of quality time with you that often isn't normal. As well as trying to get personal. If he isn't trying to get personal, then it's just attraction and a bit of insecurity and shyness. Nothing more.1
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