I don't think that my boyfriend likes my male best friend... he won't come out and say it, but I could tell based on the way he acts. Sometimes when my friend calls me, he walks away and says "oh go talk to your husband". I always reassure him that we've known each other for years and I don't look at him that way. What are some things/ways that you'd handle a situation like this? And yes, my friend and I go places together, but never thought it was bad because he has female friends.
- Explain to my significant other that there is absolutely nothing to be jealous ofVote A
- Let my significant other go, because jealousy is a huge turn offVote B
- Encourage my friend to be mutual friends with us bothVote C
Most Helpful Guy
Tell him to stop being so insecure. I would have a problem with my girl hanging around a guy she used to sleep with but other than that, have fun with your friends. I look at it like this, if your going to cheat and fuck around on me, your going to do it regardless of if I know the guy or not. Your going to do it and there is nothing I can do about it. He should know that it makes him less attractive being so insecure. It actually drives the other person into cheating when you act that way. Girls start to question how great you are if you are so jealous and than they go, hmmm maybe the other guys better.2
Most Helpful Girl
Explain but if he never accepts that my friend is important to me and not a threat then byyyyye boy! Lol
Seriously. Jealously is bullshit. You either trust me or you don't, and I can't be bothered to waste my time on someone who doesn't trust me.
This actually was the number one issue in all of my dating attempts up until I met my boyfriend. My 2 best friends are guys. My boyfriend has never once taken any issue with them at all. Shit, I've slept over at their houses and shared hotel rooms with them and he doesn't give a shit lol he knows they're my bros and isn't a child :)0