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Personally throughout pregnancy I don’t feel there is a whole lot for him to do... he doesn’t need to give up alcohol or the foods I can’t eat, nothing really needs to change in that aspect for us. In the last trimester as some things become a little more difficult depending on how big I am I may need a little help with physical aspects.
For the birth I want him there for it all, including Lamaze classes and to make sure our birth plan is stuck to until or if medical advice deems it necessary to change. I need the back rubs and ice chips to birth his watermelon, and for him to tell over enthusiastic nurses to shut the fuck up when I want to punch them1