How long before going official? How long is too long to wait for a guy that won’t commit?

Anonymous
I’ve been kinda dating a guy for the last 8 months. Our situation is complicated because we’re kind of long distance. We dated for two months, I moved away, and we see each other for a weekend once a month, keeping in touch through text most days.

Anyway, it’s been 8 months and he still doesn’t want to be exclusive or put a label on our relationship. I’m getting to the point where I feel it’ll never become anything more than casual dating whereas I want a relationship. Keep in mind this guy is 33 which I feel is a suitable time to want to settle down etc. he’s told me in the past he’s looking for the one, and he tells me I’m beautiful/sexy/smart/amazing so why won’t he commit to me?

Is he just stringing me along? How long is too long to be dating someone “casually” without being an official couple?
How long before going official? How long is too long to wait for a guy that won’t commit?
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