Would you leave her if she couldn't get pregnant?

Be honest, if your girlfriend/wife/significant other couldn't conceive children, would you leave?

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  • Never! Of course I'd stay. If the only children we could have were adopted I could live with that and... to be honest with the fact that my oldest brother hasn't been able to have kids I honestly kind of worry that if I can't have kids it will be my fault =/ Either way... Starting a family is only one aspect of it in my eyes... I don't care what happens. I can trust God that whatever happens will work out for the best.

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What Guys Said 57

  • If we were married, I would be quite sad but I think infertility depends on both in some cases, sometimes she is just infertile or he is. I thought about adopting before. I wouldn't mind it but man, I would love to have my own child. It would be very hard to overcome.

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  • No! The person I marry one day will be absolutely one-of-a-kind, there will be absolutely nobody else like her. Iโ€™m never taking that for granted. The inability to get pregnant is a stupid reason to divorce, especially when you could just adopt! I get that itโ€™s expensive and a long process, but isnโ€™t that EASILY worth being able to stay with someone?

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  • Why leave? Think about all of those opportunities for sex you'd be leaving behind... ๐Ÿ˜‚

    Or, it would depend on whether or not I was the one having the trouble impregnating her... ๐Ÿ˜‚

    Okay serious answer: There's always adoption. A lot of babies and children need homes.

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  • I want kids, a LOT!
    but I think love overcomes all, if I was in love with a woman, and she couldnt bear children I wouldn't mind. I would rather be happy, in love, and having other out lets for us to explore that are not related to childdren

    Adoption is always an option.

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  • Why would you presume we'd lie in such a response? For me, the purpose of getting into a relationship is companionship, not for having children. A woman's infertility wouldn't be a deal breaker for me at all.

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  • No... that ain't very cool. If I had a girlfriend i would not leave her just because she can't conceive children.

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  • I would not leave her however i would want my bloodline to continue, i would suggest every option including surrogate, adoption would be a last resort. I would like to have a kid of own. i don't think thats a heartless thing.

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  • No I plan on adoption and the maybe one biological child but if she can't then adopting is the way to go :)

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  • No. There are so many amazing children out there who can't wait to be adopted. Blood is not everything.

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  • Why is that a reason to leave because she canโ€™t make kids doesnโ€™t matter adoption and plus you can have semen planted into another egg that is contained in a lab and then planted into her

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What Girls Said 6

  • I would not leave them at all. They could not be able to conceive for a medical reason, or maybe they have a reason that forced their hand with this. There are other ways to have genetic kids, and not being able to have a child shouldn't be a reason to leave a significant other.

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  • No, we're just trying harder. We've been working on getting pregnant with the help of our Doctors. It's been both frustrating and rewarding especially when we come so close and then things go wrong. Just because a woman can't become pregnant, or have a biological child is absolutely no reason to break up! It's all the more reason to grow closer to support and love each other that much more. If it never happens then we will adopt there's no reason not to love an adopted child any less than a biological child, they're your child and they were wanted in the first place!

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  • If I'm a boy, I'll not leave my love only because she can't get pregnant.

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  • Ofcourse not!

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  • Probably. They should have kids

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  • Depends if she gives up even after considering adoption

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