Okay I don't understand how some guys have girls just chasing them down. While guys like me are the ones doing the chasing and just get shrugged off like what the hell? I am the first to say okay I am average height and about 180-190 lbs but not all muscle (yes fat). Still working on it though, but damn I am still cute and actually have gotten some girls saying that I am pretty cute. Yet it seems like what the hell, I have even gone on a couple dates with some pretty nice looking girls, but none of them turned into relationships. For once I would like a girl to just be like hey I like you what's up?