My boyfriend and i just met our 2 week mark of being together and i feel like we’re moving to fast already. He says he loves me and i took his virginity and now he’s talking about already getting me a promise ring, him helping me pay for my college tuition and getting engaged. i feel a bit rushed and i don’t know how to tell him i think we should slow down without hurting his feelings.
Most Helpful Guy
Dang, girl. I'd say you started it. He obviously thinks more of the encounter than you do. Now he's comitted. I think you and he should talk about it. Get all your feelings on the table. But let the record show that I blame you. Should have known more about what you were getting into when you slept with the dude. Sounds like a good guy, wanting to seal the deal.0
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Most Helpful Girl
I understand your position but from the guys point of view.
Me and my boyfriend are nearly at 2 months of being together. He took my virginity, i feel overly attached to him and i can honestly see myself having a life with him. I can see kids, marriage, old age. All of it but the difference is i haven't told him that because i don't want to freak him out.
I think your guy is just infactuated with you and it's kinda adorable.
You'll never be able to ask him to slow down without hurting his feelings, but you can do it gently.
Say something like "look, i really like you, but we are really early on and that's a bit much for now..."
It shows you respect him but that he does need to calm down.
I wish you guys luck! Xx1