I am moving in with my boyfriend, won't have a job immediatly and might even take 4 months (due to some reasons I cannot help) that I won't have an income.
I already told him I would take care of the cooking and cleaning, but I also told him I would pay rent together with him. Not sure how he felt about that tbh as he kinda avoided replying to that and I haven't pushed it since.
I have plenty of savings and not worried about not having an income for a couple months but I just don't want to give him the idea I wanna take advantage of him financially.
Is that a good idea? I also don't want to make him feel like any less of a man. I don't know what's fair or should be done in this situation.
Most Helpful Guy
In my opinion you should insist in paying half of all your living expenses including rent. It is healthier that way I think. Also talk and talk about everything so there would be no misunderstandings about some stuff, including this "issue". Also you are stepping in to another phase of life, the "adult" one, so you should know to be relaxed and enjoy and also just communicate and navigate life in a 50-50 ratio. Good luck and best wishes on your together life! )4THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Do you need to move in now (as in you have no where else to live?) or are you wanting to? Is he living by himself at the moment and will you be moving into the house he already has or did you plan on getting one together? How long have you both been together for?0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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