Most Helpful Girl
You know why she hasn’t mentioned it to her family? Because that would make her a bi$ch! And she knows the backlash she will get from her family as a result! And rightly so! When a man or woman sacrifices to go off to serve his community and country, he needs a strong support base at home waiting for him! Not drama!. Stupid, stupid girl! There are many, many young woman who would be very loyal, and proud to stand by their serving Armed Forces Fiancé. You deserve that! Thank you for serving!
Most Helpful Guy
Mate, I'd give up. Clearly she has ! Sorry to say it to you.
Also, her wanting to keep it a secret to her family is blatant abuse towards you... I'd have no part in that game.
Move on, or you'll end up sad.