Girlfriend is demanding an allowance or wants out of relationship... should I provide?

So my girlfriend of 6 months has been turning me down for sex and that she is getting sick of the same with me. I asked her what’s wrong and what does that mean , and she responds” you know , I don’t need to tell you”. Finally she says she wants an allowance of $2000 a month ! I was so caught of guard I wanted to end it , but I care about her so was trying to see if I should just do it, negotiate , or nothing? I told her I could give her a few hundred for misc things like hair / nails / gas , but she said that wasn’t enough and she could do better than that on her own. What do u guys think?
Updates:
Just to clarify it’s not like I’m cheap either. I’ve already taken her on 3 vacations , and got her a LV bag for her B day.
Little on her. She’s 34 , no job , 1 kid , says that a real man takes care of his woman 100%. I asked what 100% means exactly and she said that means everything. She said there’s a long list of Guys that would be willing to do it.

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  • Is this an adult woman with a job? Who does she think she is?

    Do you want her as a sugar baby like that?

    I doubt it.

    Sure, I would love it if people poured money into my bank account too, but it's not like I think it's realistic to ask.

    I'd say "no way". She can go find a sugar daddy for that.

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    • 34 no job. says real man will take care of her. Routine is take kid to school , then workout , then hang out.

    • Most men do not pay all the expenses of their girlfriends.

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  • Did you erroneously write girlfriend instead of wife?

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  • You can't be serious. Have some self-cocking-respect.

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    • Trust me I know. She laid it on me heavy now ready to pull plug just like that over money.

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What Girls Said 10

  • "She says she’s worth at least $2000 a month so I’m getting a “discount “. "

    So is she a prostitute? Because it sounds like she thinks she's a financial transaction.

    I personally would nope out of a situation like this. It's not a real relationship if there is a monetary value attached to it. That's just sad.

    If she wants to support her 2 kids and her desire for the finer things in life, she needs to go out and get herself a job.

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    • She has limited skills and says getting a job for only $12 or so an hour isn’t worth it. And she doesn’t want to do bartending.

  • WTF? What country do you live in? I have never heard of such a thing before!! How did she support herself and her kids before you came along? You should not have to support her financially, especially when you guys aren't married and it's not your kids. She should ask help from her family or a bank or welfare or whatever.. How would you ever know that she is staying with you because she loves you or because she is financially dependent on you?

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    • She gets $700 a month from each kids father at the moment and is living for free with a friend currently.

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    • She wants her own place and feels that’s what she’s worth.

    • Then she should get a job and start saving up.

  • What you pay for your whores is nobody's business but your own.

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  • This sound like a troll but if you're serious just get rid of her, the woman is crazy. You only know her for 6 months if you both were married I would have understand but you barely know her so

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    • No troll. She super hot , with a 10 body. So she’s playing her worth. According to her I guess. Sucks because it’s the best body I’ve been with.

    • Why it doesn't surprise me you're with her cause she's hot XD
      It's really simple either you have pride either you don't. If you have some pride leave her if not stay with her but don't complain if she treat you like a dog and if it go worse and worse as time pass.

  • You could help her if she doesn't work, but if she demand the price. That's different matter. Be wise.

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  • Get rid of her. She's a gold digging hoe

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  • Dump her

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  • She's looking for a sugar daddy, it sounds like.

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    • She actually admitted to being on sugar daddy. com dating site before we met.

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    • @Logorithim Only if he's not looking for the same thing. If he wants to be her sugar daddy, then there's nothing wrong with that. But if he wants a relationship then yeah, they're not compatible.

    • Even if he is OK with being a sugar daddy, he can find someone better than her.

  • No. She doesn’t get to decide that and make demands

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    • She’s using you don’t do it

  • Lmaaaaaoooo
    she's not a girlfriend
    she's an escort 😂

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What Guys Said 16

  • A real man (or pretty much any other, LOL), would tell her gold-digging ass to get lost. You should get a girlfriend that wants a partner, not a sugar daddy. And tell her that she isn't filet mignon.

    Think with your small head, not your big one.

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    • Sorry, I had that backwards- "Think with your big head, not your small one".

    • Haha. Yea but it’s hard. The small one is in control

    • I know how that goes. She's not with you because you're The One, so find a Girl who will be.

  • Is she Thai? What a nonsense. A ''real'' man will NOT give her an allowance, but a future. Together.

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    • Latin , Venezualan

    • I see. Well: hereabouts I make clear that 50% of my relationship is myself. And that we need to meet in the middle if we intend to meet. I did not ask the lady in question to not have a job, or to have children. Sure: voluntarily I can hop in here; but I have no obligation. I also would not ask her to support my own kids or to compensate my failed qualification for an income. They want equality. They will have it.

  • I think she is about to access her "long list of Guys" and call someone up once you dump her. She doesn't have a job and is demanding an allowance like an 11 years old? Is that your kid?

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  • this is all in six months?

    dude run for the hills unless you are looking to partner up with a a gold digger

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  • Seriously? You are nothing more than a mark to her get rid of her now before you are penniless. She is bad news

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  • Just break up, she's using you. Looks mean nothing when she's a mean person and a gold-digger. Find someone who respects you more.

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  • GOLDIGGER straight up! Doesn't matter if you are a millionaire or just well off; don't be with someone who only wants you for your money -especially after just 6 short months

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  • Sounds like she mostly care about money. WTF seriously she is giving discount for relationship.. No one deserves a person who bad is like her and she is only caring about money

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  • Get rid she's seems more like a gold digger... I real man will also grow a pair of balls and tell her to get a job if she wants that money...

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  • Trollin' trollin' trollin'!
    Keep those dogies trollin'!

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  • 😂😂 Shtap with this bs lol
    Tell that girl to go work 😂

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  • If the kid isn't yours, think about quitting her.

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  • Hahahahahahaha bye

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  • I'd drop her ass like dishes.

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  • Bye bye

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    • Update doesn't change my mind... she is playing you like a fool

  • That's more than I make in a month boss

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