Or have you moved past it?
Most Helpful Guys
Nope. Because, my theory on cheating is that the "victim"... usually is the one who cheated first... about 90% of the time.
I didn't slip on my game, so there was no reason for my girl to go looking outside. So if someone's partner is given a reason to go outside, then they fucked up, not their partner.
I was ghosted once though... didn't believe it. took me 6 months to get over it. but other than that, no bad experiences here.
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Yes it most definitely has. I think because of it and other reasons I've never cheated on anyone I've been with I would never introduced that kind of pain into another human being's life is the lowest thing one human being who says they love their significant other can do to that person. Sure I've been tempted but being able 2 rise above those urges and continue to behave honorably is what separates us form animals
Most Helpful Girls
I never allow a betrayal to affect future relationships. That's like
punishing yourself from someone else's wrongdoing
If I'm betrayed, I accept my trust was misplaced in the person that betrayed me, and I move on with my life without it impacting on future relationships.
I don't judge people's standards or lack of loyalty by other people's standards . That would be unfair to them.
Trust needs to be earned , but I judge a person by their character, not someone else's.
Betrayal is extremely painful, but people need to be strong enough to not allow it consume them to the point that they can't have happy fulfilling relationships with other people.
I don't have trust issues, but my trust needs to be earned. It's naive to give it freely. But foundation of my trust is based on people's individual character
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I’ve never been cheated on but I’ve got involved with guys years apart and I see how the games goes for some. I am more aware when I’m dating now and instead of being bitter I take it as a lesson to not make that same mistake which is not reading the “red flags”.
The same red flags we ignore in the beginning will be the same reason why it ended. I think about all the moments I would have been cheated on if I didn’t make the decision to walk away in the beginning. It’s the simplest situations.