I hate being this person that needs attention. Makes me feel really needy. It just never feels like I'm getting enough. We're both busy but he's honestly not trying. This week we haven't really talked or seen each other because Im tired of putting in all the effort. I've gotten opinions from other guy friends and they all agree he isn't trying that hard. We've talked about it and his response is usually ,"I can do what I want" or a weak apology with the promise to do better but doesn't.