After we broke up for good, he tried to win me back but I determined to move on and I seized contact.
I am now 25 and I'm in a serious relationship with someone else. I am quite happy and settled.
Last night was my work Christmas party and I had a few drinks. When I got home, I had seen he was active on Facebook, so out of curiosity, I sent him a message, just saying, "hey, how are you doing?" He replied instantly and we made small talk and then he asked, "any particular reason why you're reaching out or are you just saying hey? Lol"
So I told him I was just reaching out as a friend and apologized if it was awkward for him. He told me he was happy I reached out.
After a few minutes of talking, he told me that I look really good and that complimented my hair (I guess he was checking out my Facebook).
I felt like I was crossing a line, so I ended the conversation. It was strange because it was like old feelings surfaced again. I honestly have never had the impulse to talk or try to work things out, but for some reason after we spoke I feel something again.
I love my boyfriend and have no intentions of talking to Ryan again, but part of me excited about the conversation we had. I've had a few relationships but I think that one had the most impact.
Any advice on the situation would be appreciated.