There are challenges in getting accustomed to seeing the same person every morning and every night. What is your biggest concern about a long term relationship or marriage? What do you think is the most likely potential problem that you will encounter?
- My partner will get bored with me sexually
- We will run out of things to talk about
- I will start aging and my partner won't still be attracted to me
- My partner will have weird kinks or won't accept my weird kinks
- We won't agree about having children
- We won't have other friends any more
Most Helpful Girls
I have many. One of my biggest fears would be to become too comfortable with the relationship, to take it for granted and then realize that one of us is not in love anymore. Another big concern would be that the other person would want to transgress ethical behavior in an attempt to not get bored with the relationship. I would also worry about not being capable of withstanding difficult obstacles or hardships.
What I have learned so far is that staying in love in the long run is not effortless and it requires self-sacrifice from both parties. Thinking otherwise leads to the state of feeling 'in love' to wear off.
Most Helpful Guys
I used to fear of falling out of love when my girlfriend and I got too comfortable with each other but it turned out everything is still going well, despite the repetition, accustomed to seeing each other all the time and the predictability of sex. My biggest concern at the moment is that my girlfriend changed her mind about not wanting a child and now she wants one. My concerns with this are that we both are not financially prepared to take on the responsibilities of a child and secondly, we both have unfavorable genes that include asthma, vision problems and temper with anger that could be inherited to our child.
I have no worries about the relationship and bond we have together but this sudden change could end up becoming a deal breaker since we both can't agree on the same idea, especially a critical one like having a child. Thankfully we are both giving each other time to reconsider our options but I'm dead set on not having children since I wouldn't want any unnecessary complications. It'll be interesting to see how this turns out.