Would you be in a relationship with someone that hates your family?

Honest opinionWould you be in a relationship with someone that hates your family?

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  • No, if they met my family a few times and honestly said they hate them, that’s a big red flag and I would end the relationship. I love my family and there is no logical reason to ever hate them. Maybe a reason to dislike one of them or feel differently than one of them, but straight up hatred I will not tolerate.

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  • No? That's horrible. If they have a problem with them they have a problem with me. You'd have to have a severely dysfunctional family to be okay with that.

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  • No, because my family is all I have. I love them with their good and bad side, and if he can’t accept them or at least respect them, then i will not have a relationship with someone like that!

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  • No way because if he hate and disrespect my family he will hate me and disrespect one day.

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  • if he hates my parents? oh no. he has to compromise or else I'm out...

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  • Probably not. While my family does tend to get on my nerve, I respect them too much to date someone that hates them without a good reason.
    How can I date someone that I can't bring around my family?

    Plus they are family, meaning if he doesn't like them, he probably will not be able to tolerate me over time since I have some of their traits/genes.

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  • Depends if there's something to it. If they're narcissistic, or otherwise toxic, then probably it's worth it to continue with them if that creates distance between you and your family, because it's for your benefit too, but if there really isn't anything bad about them (of course all families have their quirks and can be annoying, no one's perfect...) then I think you'd want to seriously reconsider being in a relationship with that person.

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  • Hate? No. But i wouldn't mind if they really dont like them much. I dont share many values with my family and a few of them are very negative and borderline emotionally abusive so i dont like them that much either.

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  • All family or just bits of it? TBH i'd know how they felt.
    Becomes awkward when kids involved but you can work around it

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  • Absolutely not. My family is amazing and I don't know what reason they could possibly have to hate them.

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  • no... family is your base station and a hater is not worth the pain short term and down the road.

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  • No way in hell. I like to believe familly is closer to half normal than crazy.

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  • No. My family is important to me so if he hates them then there's gonna be huge issues.

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  • No. You can't hate my flesh and blood and be cool with me at the same time.

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  • Ya, I hate my dad. So does every one of my friends.

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  • I have no family close to where I live, so not bothered by it at all

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  • My family is really loving and amazing, someone would have to be mentally ill to dislike them.

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  • That would be extremely difficult to keep in balance.

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  • No I can't, it depends if it's hatred or she just don't like a certain thing about them

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  • I was and it needed in divorce it's not going to be a healthy relationship

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  • Nope

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  • Yeah, I don’t like my family either

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  • No...

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  • Only if he had a valid reason to.

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  • Well I hate my family so sure

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  • Nope.

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  • Naaaaaaaah

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  • Nope. Family comes first

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  • Nope.

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  • Absolutely not.

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  • Depends on why

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  • Yes. I hate my family so.

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  • No
    I like it when both families get along♡

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  • Family > girlfriend

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  • For my luck... Never

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  • Probably not.

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  • Definitely not

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  • No way what's the point?

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  • Depends which ones. Some of my family are pricks.

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  • been there

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  • I have. It didn't last

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  • That's the person I'd date instantly

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  • Yes just to piss them off

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  • depends on how mean of a family 1 has

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  • I was and it didn't work

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  • Honestly, no

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  • Probably not.

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  • Nope I can't compromise

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  • I do not think so

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  • Depends on whom in particular

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  • Hahahaha my boyfriend isn’t gonna meet my family anyway

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  • No. I can't

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  • If they got married, they will end up in divorce sooner or later.

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  • Depends. Some of my family members are absolute narcissists. I don’t blame my boyfriend for hating my mom, she’s pure evil, but he respects her when she’s around. Just don’t hate on my sisters and dad 24/7 and we good lmao

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