I just started dating this new guy, who I've been friends with a long time. He kinda has a issue not knowing what he wants... sexually. And yes, he was a virgin before me. But I just feel so frustrated on what to do. I want to pleasure him, but he seems awkward talking about it, and just says he doesn't have his "mask" on for it. I usually don't go for guys like him, who are shy and submissive, but I want to make this work. He doesn't even like oral. Like what should I do?