Here’s the kicker: He is 37(15 years my senior) an divorced. The cause of the divorce “he said” was that it all started when he got caught flirting with a girl, and his wife cheated on him (they tried to salvage the marriage, but it didn’t work”. And that it would take a lot to get him to be “tied down” now, after I asked... I honestly am unsure of what is even going on now. I am a very traditional young lady and don’t want to waste my time dreaming on a hope.
So today when he texted me, I called him “bud” where he got irritated and was “bud? I want to be your bud+ everything else I am to you”. So in response I said, “ I like bud, buddy if I want to get fancy”... he hasn’t responded yet.