If drunk cheating is cheating, then why isn't drunk sex sex?

Why do people say a drunk woman (who wasn't passed out) gor raped when she had sex but a drunk taken men cheated when he had sex with another woman.
So alcohol doesn't give consent when a drunk woman has sex, but it gives consent when a drunk taken man has sex with another woman? In othr words drunk men are responsible for their actions while drunk women arent'?
I'm not taling about drunk to the point of being passed out.
If drunk cheating is cheating, then why isn't drunk sex sex?
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