Should I give up a job offer because of my significant other?

I was offered a different position than what I wanted but they offered to match my salary of the original position so I said I’ll think about it and then they offered a bonus they really want me to do the position. I told my boyfriend and he immediately said no because it’s dangerous. What I do now is dangerous as well in reality I go into homes that deal with abuse/neglect. But I’d be visiting different prisons throughout my state and doing therapeutic work with the clients (inmates). He made it seem like I’m going to be killed or something which isn’t true.
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Took the job offer☺️
Should I give up a job offer because of my significant other?
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