I live with my boyfriend but whenever we are apart a couple of days because I am visiting family, I like to call him in order to catch up or just to ask how his day was. He absolutely hates it when I call him and sometimes doesn't even pick up, which breaks my heart. It does sometimes happen that we talk for half an hour in one session. His reasoning is that I should dedicate the time that I am not with him to the people around me, otherwise I should not go for a visit. I just like to hear your opinion? Is thst behaviour normal?