Two little ones!
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Dangit who let the 2 kids make gag accounts! 😂
See this is a response I can fully respect
Thank you. It is pretty much hell; your respect is greatly appreciated (not sarcastic).
And I’m not suggesting that she should let random boyfriends come in and be instant ‘dad’. Ha. She would need to be really careful approach
So much for.
I'm never getting back together with their father
After I posted this a woman left me to get back with her baby daddy. Irony
That is becoming an adult: take responsibility! And it is very attractive to child-wanting women out there. Sure we humans are over 8G people now but that is no valid excuse for not wanting children at all, we are never "to much". And educating them is relatively easy to do. Just do what you feel and think is right. I had the "honor" or obligation to cut my daughter's umbilical cord. Nobody can take that from me and that makes me feel proud and made me become a dad.
Taking responsibility and being responsible are two different things. If I had kids, I'd take care of them. I don't have any nor do I want any so I'm responsible to avoid having them. Big difference!
Okay, now I understand you.
I'm sorry to hear that
Also own children included? I cannot live without having own. The whole pregnancy phase, birth-giving (vaginal way) and initial screams... wow!
Sure, if I could have my own kids that would he great but at my age that window is closing so others' kids is fine. I already have one young child in my life, 8 years so far but the mother and I are only friends now, and it has been a great experience.
@BoxySama don't encourage them
HAHAHA, very good one :D!!! Same here!
Can you give me more insight into your reasonings of why you wouldn't date a single mother due to you being a 22 year old?
Im also a virgin, and not yet financially stable enough to deal with children, yet alone 2 of them... I'm also in the mindset that she would have 2 small children by the age of 22, maybe 23? Which tells me there is something wrong here if she doesn't have the father around. It yells terrible choices to me.
It also brings up the question of, does she want me because she wants me. Or is she trying to use me? Would you have dated a man with children at 22?
Well, I'm 29 not 22 lol and I'm not trying to use anyone, I'm just looking for real love. Also, as a single parent I have a pretty good understanding that being a single parent isn't because you're bad person. All it really means if you loved the wrong person and you were unfortunate enough to give them your all 😕
Right, but that is why you should understand why guys would be skeptical... your best bet might be a guy with children (good luck with finding a good one like that though)...Something i learned though is that it doesn't matter how good you actually are until someone gives you the chance to show it. And it feels like people today dont like to give that chance... which sucks.
An unmarried woman (means she has been in a marriage-like relationship, read: lived together with him without being married) can still be okay, depending on the history of both. For example: if she found out, he cheated then I would ask her, why in her eyes. This is simply because she might be not giving him something he wants, like appreciation, free space for himself and so on.
Lmfao I'm one of those women and all I want is love. I'm providing very well for myself
That's cool and all, just saying can't trust their intentions
Throw in baby daddy drama, and the fact her body was ruined, not worth it
Good luck, if you're one of the rare single moms with good intentions, you should be fine
I'm not fine though. It seems like no one wants a single mom. I've gone on so many amazing dates that felt so full of chemistry. Just for none of then tp progress to a relationship. But everyone likes me and truly want to stay in my life, buy only as friends. And I'm getting very discouraged
Hey at least you have people that like you
But I get where you're coming from, I gave up on dating years ago
Yeah, I do but what I want is love and a partnership. Having all of these friends is great and all, but I just want some to come home to and give my all to😕
Yeah, I get it, I still find myself wanting that, but then I snap back to the reality of my situation
That is so truly said for me. (I voted "No").