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One way would be to bring up reasons why you don't have time to talk or meet and then "forget" to call back or respond to a message. 🤷🏻♀️Another one would be to talk to her straight away and explain what bothers you and see if maybe things can change for the better...
Okay tell me why you want to drop her and I can tell you how to separate. Itll just give me an idea of what's going on
I kind of fell for her, but then realized she's just an attention whore and a game-player.Thought she liked me (she probably does) but she's constantly playing games and that turns me off completely.We work in the same building and share some friends, so I don't want to be a jerk.
If you cut her off she may come running to you.. how do you feel about that?
I thought about that. That's one of the reasons I'm asking for other opinions.She's a sweet girl on the inside - just really insecure, and I don't need that in my life.Do attention seekers keep coming for more? Or will they eventually stop? What do you think?
Lol well attention seekers will do everything in their power to keep their levels of being saught after or looked at always... to me attention seekers dont stop unless you call them out on their bullshit. How is she using your attention... in what way?
Self-validation, I'm sure. Tons of brothers/sisters and not a lot of attention growing up.So she's always being sexy around me, flirting, hinting at going out one-on-one, constantly messaging me at work and on the weekends.Then when I show any kind of romantic or sexual interest, she backs off completely. Then when I back off for a day or two, she'll be right back in my face with her hot self.
this cycle has repeated about 5 times now. Yesterday she blew me off and I decided I'm done with it.
Call her out!!!
She will stop I promise u that
How do I call her out? Tell her I see what she's doing and I don't like it?
What's the first letter of your first name?
My first initial is L
Imma call you L.Thanks L, you're pretty cool. I'll update this thread as things progress.I might just call her out and then give her a little of what @WalterRadio suggests below.
Ghost her. It is that simple.
That's tough because we share friends and will definitely still see each other around.
It is not tough. Simply don't contact her and don't reply to her.
Thanks - that's definitely on my short-list of ways to get this done.
The more I think about it, the more this solution makes sense. haha
Gradually reduce communication. If she says anything just say you’re busy at work
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