All these people saying about “talking” ... yeah most people lie.. like honey are you cheating on me? Of course honey I am. Sorry. Happened never! If they have an issue with you looking it’s because there’s something.. and that’s just as bad as someone wanting to always look at your phone.. that relationship is over.
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Control issue warning also insecurity warning 😉
Did I trigger you? Should give a trigger warning.
If you say so
Where can I get a helmet like yours
Especially not hidden in private mode that isn't noticeable if you doesn't know it exists.
However, you know it's done all the time.
Your probably right. I don't hear about it with couples I know. I'm solo so I don't have to worry about that stuff.
Mr Cov28, I'd like to say there are people in relationships who are unhappy and won't confront the unhappiness of their relationships, yet decide to go outside the relationship with someone who presents themselves. And the someone is fine with making the suffering spouse happier by their attention. So, dysfunction on all sides. Lucky you, that you know well adjusted couples.
I sat here and thought about all this. I don't know what goes on behind closed doors.I would never get involved with someone's spouse just because they are unhappy. It's not right.
I understand your reticence and I agree 100%. But it appears there are many who accept what someone says as fact and is willing to take what they can get no matter what the situation is. I've been speaking to an associate who is unhappy in his marriage and family situation and is contemplating an affair and the start of another relationship outside of marriage to solve his family problem. The woman is married too. I've discouraged him in all manner of ways, but he's obsessed with the idea of it. I think I'm just going to say, just have the affair and stop telling me about every detail of your thoughts on it. People do what's easiest, I think.
That really sad to hear. I hope he changes his mind. Many people will get hurt by this with both parties
I've been saying this until I'm blue in the fingers. He doesn't consider what this could do to his wife or children. It's like he's a stupid teen ager instead of 37 years old. I think he should see a counselor. He ignores my suggestions in that area. Bound and determined. I'm in a rut. I say, get yourself out of it. I say his behavior is destructive... He ignores. So, I give up.
That's really unfortunate. Those kids will be affected for lifeYou did what you could.They both will regret there actions.