There's a married guy who has been after me for years, I made sure it was always a platonic friendship until recently when I realized he's the only guy who has ever truly cared about me. I did reciprocate but now it seems he's already into someone else. He keeps saying shitty nonsense like we didn't marry only because we didn't meet on time etc etc. I don't understand why he'd say any of it, not like I asked him to. If you don't love someone, why proclaim you do?