How do I fix a relationship with someone I’m fighting with?

[Anonymous]

Be honest with them. Tell them what you just told us. And apologize. It’s up to them if they want you back. I understand your side of things because I’m pretty much the same way. I’m very defensive and get offended very easily. However, I can also see why this person wouldn’t want to talk to you anymore. It’s very hard to be around someone that gets offended so easily. It’s difficult to be with someone so impatient and unforgiving as well. Try to understand their side of things, and tell them that you’re trying to. Communication and honesty are key in any relationship (family member, friend, lover, etc.)

[Taylor_C]

Don´t even try. You need to work on yourself first. Spend a few years soul searching, learn about you, what motivates you and what triggers certain behaviors in you. You´re still very young and needs to mature. You may subconsciously be doing this because you are not ready for a relationship. If these behavioral patterns are still evident in a few years, you may want to seek therapy.

[JustSomeGuy11]

Apologise, admit what you did wrong, and explain that you don't mean to do it. Ask them if you can work together on improving the relationship and the way you communicate to eachother. If they're a good friend/bf? they'll be understanding. Try to identify when you start to overreact and learn to take a step back. Learn how to debate a topic, rather than argue it. Take your time, and work with them.

[redpanda_]

Apologise, explain that you don't mean it. Tell them it's hard not being able to talk to them.. Not sure what the situ is between you though.

[SongBird3]

You 16, so your too young and immature to be in a serious relationship anyways. Maybe in a few years you'll have matured

[Iron_Man]

Sit down and talk it out

[Yammy]

Have you apologized to them?

[RussianBot900]

Maybe its unfix able and you need to move on

[prissiii]

Talk to them