Why? "Old" guys have experience in life, what really matters. BTW: My girlfriend is 28 and is not offended by my age, more that another guy wanted to send her cash for sex (yes, sounds like a porn guy to us both).
@roland77 my father is also 11 years older than my mother, I think people should be free to do what they want I wouldn't judge your girlfriend or you for the age gap, also 14 years gap is not that extreme. It's almost the same as my parents.But I have personally never been in relationship before and I'm saving myself for marriage and I never got to live those Youthful couple moments in my life, so my personal preference is to be with someone around my age, with the same youthful energy and at the same stage in life!
@ElissaDido Not want a mature guy how really knows what women want (and that is not only good sex)? Hmm, I cannot believe it. So why do foreigner women do it then? Oh, sure! They want to abuse us getting into a better country. That is stereotyping! No, maybe some do it but not all. So why an "older" guy and not same age range/mind stage? Simply because we are more mature ("ripe").
@roland77 I think that maturity has little to do with it. I have relatives who are married to man-childs who are over 50. The guy I was speaking to is 23 and is very well grounded, mature and cultured. I don't see why I should date an older man if i'm simply not attracted to older men...Even Foreign men do it with Older women, even grandmas, yes wanting the green card and money is a common motivator for young people getting in a relaitonship with much older people, regardless of gender.
PS: I'm a foreigner woman and I don't want to do it. So is the case for most of my close "Foreign" Friends. To each their own, you can't force every young woman to be attracted to older men.Why not use the same excuse for younger men to date older women? They're also more mature than younger women.
@ElissaDido Careful with stereotyping! My last 2 ex wives are Filipina and they were clearly not after my non-existing money. Still I don't like it that I sent supportive money while I'm broke here in Germany, too. Simply because our expenses are much higher than there on the Philippines.
@ElissaDido With 24 years you are no longer youth, or do you want to say your mind is still like a youth girl (<18 years old in mind)?
@roland77 They don't all do this but I come form a country where this is common practise, but the other way round. Young men dating and sleeping with 50 years + women in order to get the green card and money.Just watch 90 days fiance and you'll see that the most represented nationalities for men there is Tunisian and Jamaican.You're also stereotyping all young men as being immature and bad at sex. I think that maturity is not only linked to age but also morals, values and personality. A lot of the guys i'm talking to online are around 20-25 and are mature enough for me...
@roland77 At 24 i'm still considered a young woman
@ElissaDido Young woman is not youth. But hey, okay. Peace! Sure there is a lot abuse, on all sides. But let's not forget that there are also good guys and good girls out there.My girlfriend is from Kenya and she is clearly against such abusive behavior as many her own people did, thinking that we Western men are all rich in money, have a big house and car (and penis?) and she also hates it like you do. But still she is open enough in her heart finding love in me, as a "Western" man.There are really abusive cases, like this: Today women are "networked" means in closed groups on many famous social networks and exchange information there where in which country they have this and that benefit (support/social money abuse).An African woman (other one, not mine) was married to a German guy, who she knows he likes licking pussy a lot. She let that happen but sent secretly "supportive" money to her parents. The guy later found that out and was really wondering how she was able to fill out a Western Union form (which is in German language here) while her German is very broken... Guess how? Yepp, so-called "friends" helped her filling it out. So he forbids her sending any more money because he really was broke at that time. She then forbids him licking her pussy until he resumes payments...See? Very abusive! But basically said, her parents/relatives needs to be blamed for abusing their daughter basically has a prostitute for them (get money from the guy for licking pussy, forbid licking it when he doesn't want to pay anymore).And to say it once more: I AM NOT STEREOTYPING ANYONE! Not younger guys (younger than me) for being "worse in sex", I did never said that. I'm just curious why you hate it being approached by us "older" guys. Did they not respect your existing relationship? Then that has nothing to do with their age, but their mind-setup. I do respect existing relationships, when I know she is in one, I don't approach her.
how old were you when you hooked up?
I met him when I was 19 he was 39, but we started dating when I turned 20
Nice! Nothing wrong about that!
@Tellme Sure, why should it? Love sees no color or age (underage excluded!).
@OBanana your "choice" (heart-wish) is not the other's damn business. I can fully agree with you here. Nice you like a 40 years old guy. :-)
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Yes, same feelings for them here, too. A senior guy with a 25 years old lady, e. g. from Asia/Africa is maybe not right for her (I saw it to often when I was there on the Philippines, he just wanted to have a living mattress, if you know what I mean).
@status update. then yeah, she likely has daddy issues
40's & 23
+20 years gap is to much for me, but surely 5-15 years doesn't matter, exception is 17 years gap.
"Normal" (please define normality) is 5-7 years distance while the guy is older than the woman. Still I find it okay when she is 15-18 years younger than me (42 me, 28 her).
@roland77 Normal is whatever is legal and the 2 parties want to do. I have a family friend that was 26 and married a guy who was almost 50 years old. They are happy I mean it is up to the people in the relationship anything anyone else thinks does not matter.
@MAINEVENTMAFlA Sure thing. :-) I hope I will also get married to her. :-)
Sure but dating a senior (also us males could) is maybe not the right guy to start a family with, if you know what I mean?
@roland77 Celine Dion missed that memo.
Uhhh, no. He is old enough to be her dad. But I guess if you want a sugar daddy. Someone gag me with a spoon!
@Daniela1982 40-23=17. He must then make his girlfriend pregnant when he was 17 years old (and she 15?) which promotes youth-pregnancy.
Hey good luck and all love in your relationship! I'm 42 and she is 28, which is also not 5-7 years only and we have a lot affection to each other, chatting daily. Yes, we do start it now.
Yes, that is true again!
40 and 23
I suppose I don't really have a preference on that. I think it's okay, it's all about them being comfortable with one another and that people's opinions shouldn't matter in personal relationships, because society has no business being mixed up in that. Statistics show that women are more mature than men and therefore will be more attracted to older men because firstly, they can provide more stability, more maturity, and because they have experienced more of life, they know what they want and are confident in getting it.
I suppose it would be different if the girl was maybe 18 because she basically just started life 😂 she wouldn't be as experienced or confident in the choices she makes. Around the age of early to mid 20's I think women would be more experienced, mature and confident in their decisions and they should know what they want.
You're not even old enough to be an adult yet.. and thus guy is old enough to be your father
@different83 I'm 42 and my girlfriend is 28. She doesn't feel me as her father but as a good friend she can trust.
7 years distance is fine as long as you love each other. I hope your parents agreed? Because he is in relationship with an underage (read: not adult, no you are not adult with 16 years).
I'm 42 and she is 28, does that fit in? Sure we don't mind, because we love each other (love is blind to age with adults and color in skin). Hey, I'm only into adults, okay?
(42/2)+7 is 28 so you're alright 👍
@lcknm Ah. that how it works, maybe I should seek my bed (04:11 a. m.).
Until it comes to cowgirl, with a senior (+60) guy... hehehe.
You'd be surprised.
Me? I'm no gay. ;-) Oh, okay. I got what you mean, my own penis... Yepp, keep eating:- garlic- onion- pure dark chocolate (not sweetened)- saffron with milk, good for both male and female- citrus fruits- chilli- banana
You lost me. I was referring to young women and the reverse cowboy with a 60 year old. They'd do it. Not sure what you are referring to.
Er, woman and reverse cowBOY? Is she using a strap-on and dildo on him? ;-)
Reverse cowboy means she is riding you facing the other direction. Not sure how you came up with that unless you are intentionally being obtuse.
That is not cowBOY but cowgirl, but okay. ;-) Me obtuse? No, I read the word exactly: cowBOY, not cowGIRL. ;-)
No... reverse is when they face away from you. Hence, "reverse cowboy" so you see their ass and back and not their face and tits.
... and it is called called cowboy as far as I have been hearing for years.
Yeah I know that position very well. Maybe cowGIRL refers to the rider being female while cowBOY also refers to the rider being a male. So that is why I said I'm not gay and I prefer to have a cowGIRL on my penis. :-)
why do you say that?
They are just so very good at it and they know what they're doing.
what age have you been with?
The oldest was mid 40's
nicehow old were you?
I just turned 20
what is your name on here?
Please don't see us as good love-makers. We have hearts that can be hurt when you only want "great" sex/pussy licking from us. Please give us that emotional feeling back we gave you.
18-24 years old and have thoughts about dating a +14 years old younger "woman"?
That means your "girlfriend" is a baby or a young child and that is perverted.
I just hit the report button. #Pedophilia is not wanted here.
@roland77 Well done
It can be ideal, as long as the guy is not senior and she is <30 years old, means he could mess around with her personal development as most old people tend to be grumpy/stubborn and stick to their norms and values.
@roland77 30 years is the max yeah