JimmyQ | 57 opinions shared on Relationships topic.
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Sad question kid and at such a young age. Love can shoot your heart to the moon or break it into millions of pieces that you spend the rest of your life trying to figure out how to put together.
I'm not sure if his will help or how much your experiences parallel my own, but I can tell you what my dad told me when I was balling my eyes out on the phone cause my wife was screwing a dude that was supposed to be painting our house.
His words were good then and they are good today. You need to forget yourself. Give away your time and your energy to help others less fortunate. Join the Peace Corps., go on a foreign mission, or volunteer at a children's hospital. In helping others you are actually repairing your own heart and learning how to love again.
I know this much from experience. The first cut truly is the deepest, but if you want to live to love another day, you gotta get up and fight for your survival. Loosing is the only thing that teaches us how to win.
Oh, and just to put a cap in this, I changed my phone number to stop her from calling and I barely ever think about the bi+ch. Some people may tell you that hate is the opposite of love, but it's not. The opposite of love is indifference.
I promise you, everyday will hurt a little less until you finally realize that you just couldn't give an F.
In my head, one voice calls out: "It is enough, for true Love, that it be eternal, regardless of circumstance. As for Love's flawed impersonators, who's to say?" . . . And from another corner, I'm reminded that: "Love itself, once intimately known and thereafter mutinied against, after the course of things is allowed to run itself out without the offender's due repentance, still subjects such an enemy to torture eternal." At this, I realize, with this question at least, I'm simply in over my head. . . . But ah, the welcoming my heart would give to efforts to renew it all. Perhaps I'm neither as perfect as true Love no doubt is, Nor ever have I been so mistreated.
Yes, I did. I met him in 8th grade I fell in live with him but he manipulated me into falling in love with we were on and off for 3 years and I finally just had to give up and move on and dude it was sooooo hard but I did and now I'm over him and with someone that's so much better. I think
Yes i loved my ex boyfriend but than he broke it off bc he wz seeing someone else i wz okay with it but i cried bc i loved him and couldnt keep him off my head but i moved on bc i met someone else and i couldnt keep doing that to myself for loving one person that doesn't love me
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