What to do when your partner has gained a lot of weight?

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when I first met my girlfriend she was lean but after a year due to some meds and bad diet she gained a lot of weight.
Now I still love her, but she was more attractive before for sure.
And I am someone that puts a lot of effort on my physique and health so it bothers me a bit that she is neglecting herself that much.
I tried to initiate her into sports
I tried to give her advice on her diet.
But she told me she doesn't want to be pushed, she will get into it when she feels ready for it🤷🏿‍♀️
What to do when your partner has gained a lot of weight?
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