That is no dictation on you! It is for... Na, forget. You won't buy it.
With that attitude I will move away in a heartbeat!!You don't want to look attractive for your partner why the hell would he make you feel attractive?
@Oram52 Good point. :-) Sometimes it is recommended, almost mandatory to wear lingerie/sexy clothes, like on honeymoon.
@Oram52 So, underwear is what makes a person attractive, interesting.
Sure makes her sexy. Its about putting effort same way girls would want guys to make an effort. And attitude like I said.
@Oram52 So, sex is the reason why you want someone to wear something different.Why must sex always be on the top of the priority list in a guy's mind? Are there no other subjects in life that are equally important in a guy's mind than sex?
There are many other things but sex is vital part of that for both men and women. Its about physical appearance, physical effort. Trying to do something nice for your partner, looking good for your partner, putting effort for your partner. If you're going to put effort for your partner or do something appealing for him, or do something he likes. Why would you expect same in return?
@Oram52 That "something" does not have to have a sexual connotation. You can do something nice for your partner by taking the garbage out, going on vacation together, sitting together holding hands and many other things that don't have to be sexual. The message comes through exactly the same way.
It does not, two are different things. Would like your partner to be romantic? Why should he be romantic why not hold hands, put rubbish out? Why should he be chivalrous? Just go on a vacation. Message on not similar or close to it at all. Like I said you're free to not put effort in but I guarantee it you'd be getting same effort in return.
@Oram52 I understand your point of view.Perhaps that not all people are selfish and expect anything in return. There are also people that do something for the pleasure of doing it and not because they expect anything in return.
Partners should be selfless and should do things to make their partners happy. But it goes both ways. Do guys not try to be romantic? Buy gifts? Be chivalrous? Find other ways to be intimate? Imagine you're selfless and do a lot for your partner, but he wouldn't do what you'd like him to do. It takes two to tango if you're not going to put effort to be sexy what desire would he have to make you feel sexy?
@Oram52 And that is exactly where the problem lies in this word. Everything MUST be related to sex, sexy, sexiness and any other adjectives and names that are associated to this word.It is a very sad world and screwed up society that we live in because sex is dominating every single second of an adult's life. But I guess we will terminate here because this thread is being misused for our little exchange of opinions. All that for a pair of underwear.
You're right sure we could end this. But again you've completely missed the point and world doesn't revolve around sex. Regardless something you shall find out anyway soon enough.
Same here girlie.
@1828avaava1828 @Elliegirl Not even on honeymoon?
Women wearing y-fronts is something else, I tell ya! Stick women in whitey tighties! It would certainly be different. Would rather they gave me their eggs to make babies than to waste favors on underwear preferences! (Sorry!)
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I think a gift or special request is different. I meant like her regular style of panties she wears on a daily basis.
When I say gift, I mean a package of socks, that is assumed they will be worn regularly or a package of boxers, like wise a package of panties would have the same effect. Now, you could a get a special boxer for example one made out of silk for a guy or like wise a silk pair of panties, and those while a gift could be used for normal use throughout the week as well. But if has to be with the goal that you would enjoy them
I just wish her the best.👍
He did hinted it to you. That is asking indirectly because he let you know what he likes. Just buy and wear it for him which might be a sexy surprise for him! Hey, you got his message then!
@roland77 it's a style that I already wore anyway.
Ur ex was a cuckold?
@hamadazopry I don’t understand what that is exactly
A man who accepts that his wife/gf to be sexually demanded from other strangers, actually it's considered a type if fetish or kinky sexual behavior
@hamadazopry no lol we did not do that
But why he's asking u to remove ur panty when u r out... Other men will see ur private parts
@hamadazopry not flashing lol just give them to him.
I'm sure this will be noticed, I can know precisely if a woman is wearing thong, brief or nothing 🧐🤣
@hamadazopry well good for you lol
Lol weird flex but okay
@egarcia1360 "Weird flex"? I don't understand that, please explain! :)
"Flexing" = showing off (think flexing your muscles, but applicable to other situations). So a weird flex is just when you show off in a strange way (like telling everyone you have a mammoth dong by complaining that it hangs down too far with the wrong underwear lmao)
@egarcia1360 Hmm, not sure but maybe misunderstanding the Boxers and hanging low thing? That happens after MANY years, and I like mine, just they way they are! :)
What is the wrong in asking to wear something sexy
Good answer 😊
So only on special days as I'm opt-in for pure naked skin. And it should be comfortable to wear.
Good for you girl 😊
Sad to read because for #honeymoon it is a way different story. But hey, don't turn him on. That is why hookers and prostitutes wear such lingerie and sexy underwear. But hey...
Why good for you girl? Fair enough. I'd just move on and find someone who would love to wear what we find attractive.
@Oram52 Exactly. And prostitutes know that and do wear lingerie.
U have no idea what he is doing with them lol
@KingZee My ex senior boss always brought along out-used clothing for cleaning rags in the workshop. This included his grand-daughter's underwear :D
@andreasderjuengere Am I hearing some underwear-fetish?
@roland77 In my then ageing senior boss? Nah: we guys just had a good laugh about it. Boat-builders have only ONE fetish: boats ;)
@andreasderjuengere Ha ha ha. Okay, sorry. :-)
Ellie send me a DM