Is it murdee to cry and get anxious thinking he might hv to move away for a few days for work and we might be living seperately nd he might fall in love with someone else coz out of sight is out of mind
No, that's not emotion that is harming anyone other than yourself. As long as you don't take these irrational thoughts and use them to punish him for what he hasn't yet done.
I meant to say then use the •
Tell him the cramp pains is like really bad food poisoning and a sickness bug cause its true in most cases.
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Mine dsnt hv the patience i guess... or maybe there is something wrong with me only... I'm the asshole here
You are being silly. There is nothing wrong with you. You are not an asshole. You are just another woman, with a period that needs to understand her body
But I'm the one who acts like an emotional idiot every month... like I hv to control myself always... coz im a woman.. nd we can't misbehave... thats unacceptable
Who says you can't have times where you lose control? Guys lose control all the time with our anger. So why can't a girl lose control when they are on their period? Just because it is your body making you act out because of your period doesn't mean you have to this "Perfect" person that doesn't misbehave. You are a human being you'll make mistakes, you'll misbehave, but if you want to control yourself you need to understand yourself as well as your boyfriend should understand your body too. Saying you're an idiot every month shouldn't be something you say. You should say it is "Natural and I am okay with that." Every woman goes through something similar. And guys go off the tracks with our anger but we slowly learn to deal with it
He should be the one person i dont hv to watch myself every sec about wht I'm doing... i hv to pretend nd behave in front of everyone... but he should be my home so that can relax nd really be myself
Just because you fuck him, doesn’t mean he has to eat shit and take abuse. Most guys can be supportive and laugh at you up to a point… If you’re too crazy then just give him some space and let him do his own thing for a week while you do yours.
Thats like a hard slap... but i think u might be right... we do need spaxe from each other for a while
Ok maybe u r right about the part that its hard to find someone who loves u that much that he can handle ur shit every month
It's not that they don't love you, if they make an effort to handle it, that's definitely love.
He gave me a painkiller nd went to sleep... i dont need a bloody pill.. just someone to listen to my shit for a little while
Was it late? I don't see my wife being on her period as a reason to stay awake if I'm tired in all honesty. Don't forget men are generally (but not always) less emotional than women, especially when they're on their periods.
Well yeah things r not exactly great at work for him so he is a bit tensed about that.. but im always so supportive for the rest of the days... dont i deserve some understanding too
Yes, you do. It sounds like you and he should communicate with each other a bit more.
I suck at explaining my feelings nd it always turns out as something else than wht i meant to say... nd then i get mad why he's not getting my point... nd he's like I'm totally getting ur point... but no u r not... u r getting the wrong point... thats not wht i was saying
I'm really sorry but I don't know what you expect from him? I don't think he's being ignorant about periods, it sounds like he's lost patience for your behaviour.
I just want him to listen to me sometimes and not judge me
Well i can't say it to him.. but i can say it to u... f*** you asshole... no uterus... no opinion... i dont even need u if u r gonna be such an insensitive gilbo
so whe the fuck u even have a boyfriend when u dont need him hyyym
He's an awesome guy otherwise... but i can be a shit load to handle during periods... so he asked me if i wanted medicine or food i can get that... but to handle tantrums... that's too much
Can’t control your emotions, but you can control your behavior.
That's what he said... so i should behave properly even if i feel like bursting out crying
Crying is one thing. Having a temper tantrum is a totally different matter.