That's exactly how I feel
glad I'm not alone. I mean it's nice if someone feels like it's their special mission in life to compliment every girl and tell them how amazingly beautiful they are, but sometimessssss those kind of comments should be reserved for the person we're in a relationship with so they know they're somebody special to us and not just another pretty face to throw a compliment to in my opinion.
That's a really good way of looking at it!! I'm happy to hear that a guy feels the same way too.
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Directly to her?
No way! I get very jealous
Lol you know I overthink everything. I'm just curious to know if that's a common thing. You're a sweetheart, Liam.
I definitely agree that it's no ones responsibility to make you feel that way, except your own! I do find concern when they think it IS their job to make other women feel good about themselves.
i will not discuss that with you , here in public. you are much more beautiful than that. 😊
I'm not sure I understand your response?
we won’t air our dirty laundry.
In my opinion, hot is lusty. Someone can be beautiful or gorgeous but it doesn't have the lusty implication that "hot" seems to have. Still, he said that he was helping other women by telling them these things. For me, if I'm your girl, you shouldn't be talking to other women about how they look. But some guys have said that's controlling or jealousy but I think it's a respect thing.
I see. I'd say you're both right. I can see how that'd bother you. And i can see how it can be just a harmless compliment. In situations like that i'd say he should tell her she's hot and if he wasn't already with a knockout he'd scoop her up. I mean because he's complementing her. But at the same time he's saying i'm in a relationship with a woman i love so this isn't a pickup line, it's a genuine compliment. Or would that still bother you?At any rate i've heard both sides the term " hot" is sexual in nature as opposed to beautiful so some women hate being called hot because it suggests that you're only looking at them sexually. And to that i say if a guy doesn't know you. He's just seeing the woman for the first time it's hard to look at her any other way. Unless of course you see her from a far, maybe you heard her crack jokes, sing karaoke horribley or what have you. Something that allows you to see her personality at rhe same time.
I don't know... I feel like it would still bother me, the hot part for sure. I don't like the "if I wasn't in a relationship..." type of thing. I just feel like I'd be disrespecting my partner by saying something like that. I'm even thinking back to my old account when I was responding to something you said, maybe a self deprecating joke or something because of a woman. I was trying to say no way because you are attractive but I felt like I had to not say it because I had a boyfriend. Even Vivant commented too, no way, or whatever. Anyway, I can't remember the specifics. In a situation like that, I can see how that might actually be helpful or encouraging. But in the scenario on this question, the context was completely different.
I support trillions of girls because i know i dont have a one.. No girl shows any sign they like me why should i give my love to only one