... and why am I checking gag while I'm grocery shopping? Smh, the addiction is real, LOL.Anyone need anything while I'm at the store?
I can smell those home baked cookies... good answer!
so hungry belly 😂
Can you pick up some milk for those homemade cookies?
@dorkvader Want anything? Auntie Cynical is at the store picking up a few things?
Eh. I'm good. Auntie Cyn is focusing on us and not that hot guy dying for her attention at the end of Aisle 4
@DorkVader tonight is not the night... I already know when it will happen for her.
Lmao! I mean, bold statement!!
@DorkVader The only thing I noticed on aisle 4 was a box of oatmeal cream pies I got, LOLOh, I got a gift for y'all: drive.google.com/.../view?usp=sharing King cake ice cream!!! It's a specialty down here this time of year
@coachTanthony That's funny, I still don't see that unicorn of a man yet Coach. You sure are confident aren't you? I'll personally deliver those cookies AND milk to your house when he appears!Actually I'll probably throw a "Cyn finally got a man!" party for everyone to attend
What is the dominant flavor in that ice cream?
@coachTanthony Definitely the cinnamon, but it tastes like cake to me. If you've had king cake before, it tastes just like it! I wish I could mail you guys some to try; it is delicious That's a better picture of how it looks
I don't know what Kink cake taste like but I will take your word for it.
WAIT...You've never had king cake? Oh my gosh, that's terrible. I'm so sorry for your tragedy; that really is a shame. I must rectify that one of these days if you're brave enough to share your address with me, lol. It's basically sweet coffee bread with frosting on it, and depending on what kind you get, you can get a plain one, or one with filling such as: chocolate, pralines, cream cheese, strawberry, etc...
Sounds like it would go fantastic with my morning coffee!
I respect your wants but WTF? This world is one big ball of godawful. You need to grab whatever happiness you can from it. I'd take a single perfect date over mediocrity anytime. No one can ever take away those memories. I want to feel all I can feel as I walk in this body. Take all you can from this tourtureious existence!
Blue Bell is good ice cream anyway!
She named an 80s jam! THIS IS MHO
@DorkVader Lol, I love 80's music! 70's and 80's both, actually. I grew up with it since my parents listened to it, and never outgrew my parents' music!
Same! I love the 80s forever.
Well, I mean. I grew up in the 80s, lol
@DorkVader Me too! I wish today's music was as good. I've tried to give it a fair chance and a few songs are okay, but most is just noise to me.
@DorkVader I wasn't alive yet, unfortunately, but wish I would've been!
Don't be trading your youth, lady. These years are precious.
@DorkVader I won't! I'm trying to make the best of them while they're still here!
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Wise answer right here ❤
just because it lasts for 2 years doesn't mean it's not "real."
But if so awesome, why should it end after 2 years?
Terminal illness in my case. What was I supposed to do? 2 years is what I got... I would do it again in a heart beat.
Well in that case, of course. But that's not how the question came off. Noone is guaranteed forever cuz noone lives forever. Mine ended after 20 years for same reason, but I'd a took even just 2 with someone I really love.
And sorry for your loss
Why should I have to qualify it? I am sure everyone would agree if I did right? Life is not guaranteed everyday so 2 years is an amazing amount of time to have an amazing experience with someone. Most would say no because it doesn't last a lifetime. Goes to show how we take time for granted.
It was a long time ago but thank you.
Well said miss brains 😉
@TonyMetal_1986 Thank you
I once went on a cruise... met a wonderful lady and we had basically a romance novel of a week in cabo... it was a dream. It was stuff only seen in movies. Do I look back on that and go damn I wish that never happened? Child please! You got one trip in this world... I aint' ending up in some hospital telling stories of how heart ache would kill me... I am telling the story about that amazing week. I guess people are just wired differently. Baffles me really.
It would literally effing KILL me to love someone intensely for 2 years and when it was over, it was over. I have abandonment issues. You've described what is probably my definition of hell.
Plus knowing when it would end would poison the whole scenario. I couldn't
Fair enough.. could you do it for week?
I'm kind of in a similar vein here. I suppose it depends on the grief associated with the loss. A week couldn't possibly do that to me, as knowing it will end so soon would prevent me from building bigger hopes and dreams. 2 years might lead to quite a deep attachment though of a kind that would be hard to shake off. And for me, the longer ones require a great deal of investment -- at least in terms of time and emotion. So it's like I'm not sure I want to purchase an expensive house if I knew it would collapse in a couple of years -- even if it'll be the best house I will ever live in for my entire life.
You know, I don't want to be on the hospital bed looking back without awesome experiences and adventures, but at the same time, I don't want to be dwelling on all I invested in a house that collapsed in 2 years while missing it.
@Obtuse So lets not do anything worthwhile in our life then is what you are saying?
More like let's not invest so much in things that won't last. The "amazing" part is tricky for me when combined with a time span of 2 years. I can't imagine it without a great deal of at least emotional investment and a cost factor there that will increase as time goes by. The greatest cost is that emotional one in my case.
And you know, I've had alternatives for at least amazing potential relationships that don't have an expiration date known in advance. I prefer not to know if there is one because part of what elevates something to "amazing" for me includes dreams of growing old together, of building a family together, all that -- things that come crumbling down with a short expiration date.
@Obtuse Why do good things have to last or not do them? Why can't they be great for a certain amount of time. So if you can't have them forever lets' not even have it? You hit the biological lottery of a trillion to 1 odds of being human and you are stating the most pickiest shit I have ever seen as if you will live forever. Good for you man.
I certainly won't live forever but I am monogamously wired. You know, it's like if I'm really into a girl I'm picturing her as the mother of our future children. That's what elevates everything to amazing for me. And obviously we won't live together, nothing lasts, but there's a certain time span I revolve my dreams around when I'm really falling for a girl and everything is amazing. It's a little bit longer than 2 years at least if I reach that state.
* [...] won't live forver [...]It's the way I fall for a girl. It's not forever but there's probably a reproductive and family element to it. It's sort of what separates "home" to me from an "apartment". If I'm really, really into a girl I'm thinking "home", not "apartment" -- purchased car over a rental car, that sort of thing. I'm an "investor" type in this context more than a "spender" -- and I am certainly picky about my investments.
When sh*t gets real you will discover who truly loved you and who didn't...Every serious relationship should lead to an eternal sacred marriage, marriage is only legal papers here on earth but some people seem to forget that marriage is sacred and the most important thing is the union and the blessing of god and that's how a husband and wife becomes family and are able to have sex.Before marriage, no matter how much you loved each other, boyfriend and girlfriend or lifetime partner or anything else, you will remain strangers to each other and your not a real family, only a blessed sacred marriage makes a man and a woman become one phsycially and spiritually as husband and wife.
No papers or health ins fails. He has a ring tattoo. My real one stopped fitting me. He's been to jail. people change and grow. That's just life :)
I guess people grow to become a better person in life and to learn from their mistakes.Also when a spouse is married, he or she should always think before they act because after marriage they become related to each other and become a family.
Can I ask you a question
You are saying your last relationship was a "dream relationship"?
It was in some respects, certainly not all. I did have some good times with her.
What if they were terminally Ill and there was no way around it?
@coachTanthony that would only make things worse. Knowing that the one I’m with is terminally ill and there’s a foreseeable end to their life. I’d rather be alone. The heartache would be too much.
So your dream relationship is based on time?
My dream relationship is to be with my lifetime partner. Based on more than "time".@coachTanthony
you talking about after life?
What do you think?@coachtanthony
Why because of the time?
Yeah pretty much
Waht if they were dieing?
Ok that changes the story, then I would stay with them as much as I can
Ps not to be rude but it is dying, didn't know if you knew or not, also didn't know if you cared
It's also what and not waht. I know.