My boyfriend (35) and I (32) are together for 2.5 years (after 2 years of friendship in which he was in love with me). I am starting to doubt our relationship because of 2 things: he cannot say that I am the one (he did in the beginning; now says that he grew and doesn't believe in that sort of thing anymore); he doesn't propose (he looked at rings in the past, talked about marriage, but now doesn't anymore). I left a lot behind to be with him (career, closeness to family) because he ensured me that we have a future. Now I am not sure... those 2 things bother me a lot. Can anyone share their thoughts? Guys, do you understand this behavior? Thanks for the input.