Most men prefer to pursue and most women prefer to be pursued. I am with the guy who pursued me. However it’s not for everyone. Maybe you just need the right woman who will take the lead.
Dont mistake pursuing with taking the lead. Men pursue in the beginning but after that we must do 20-30% of the calling and texting. Our job is to set dates to spend time together and not being on the phone texting a girl 24/7 and constantly stalking and kissing her ass. This is the pursuing Im referring to, the type that men see in movies and stop doing what they love and should do to be with a woman and claims she wants him to stop doing those things just to get turned off when he stops doing them.Women dont know what they have a positive emotional response to. Google Corey Wayne and listen to some of his videos so you can understand better.
Women need their space in a relationship to pursue their own lives desperate of a man too, so of course don’t stalk her. So I’m on my break at work but I’m skimming through this guy you referred and I’m sketched out honest. “How to make her obsess over you.” So that’s good advice to you but a man can’t obsess over a woman?
Of course we do but we can't become unglued and just melt over a woman. The thing is we are your rock, source of strength, thats why clingy and needy guys dont tend to be respected and attractive to women regardless of how hot they are. I highly suggest you watch more videos if you liked what he said, it could really help you understand about relationship dynamics and help yours while also helping you understand why some guys turned you off or why they got turned off as well because not everything revolves around women.
Women don’t like clingy men because we need our own life and don’t need someone stuck up our ass constantly wondering what we’re doing and trying to control or manipulate every aspect of our day. We can be our own source of strength but if course the right man can gently complement that.
But isn't marriage beneficial for women by far?
Oh heck if I know. I don't plan on ever getting married, lol. I would prefer a "long term" partner. Same thing without all the expensive ceremony, dress, changing last names, and potential divorce
Most women would kill to get married (and maybe even to divorce him afterwards) 😳😳😳
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You should mean it. Otherwise you’re just bullshitting.
Goes without saying.
Why are you sleeping with and having relationships with women you don’t trust?
It's not a matter of trust. My grandfather told me stories of being younger, and trusting a woman he was with. She ended up putting tiny little holes in his condom, which resulted in her getting pregnant...
And I'm not, I'm married.. Trust my wife implicitly, but before we tied the knot I always brought my own protection
It is a matter of trust. You said so yourself.
Having your own condoms is smart but did you think she’d do something like that while you dated?
Nope.. Not even slightly.. In fact I was sure all of the women I was with would not do that.. It's just something that always stuck with me
Ok. I understand that it had a certain fundamental impact on you. But your first comment still seems... foolish. If you can’t trust that a woman says she’s on birth control, then you probably shouldn’t be sleeping with her in the first place.
Yeah sorry about that, I said it as it was told to me if that makes sense.
Yeah it does.
Thats a bad advice tbh. Love is sometimes blind. That's why a lot of people get used and manipulated by their partners.
I said that,, assuming people r little matured,,, most the time people actually know what is going wrong in their relationship,,& they know what is to do, it's just that they don't wanna accept the situation,,& continue bad toxic relationship
A relationship is like a steam pipe. You need to let it vent. Arguments are good if both parties know how to handle it.
Ok but I would rather say “discussions and disagreements” rather than fighting or arguing.
Nah, call it like it is and don’t be afraid of it. Emotions come out. My wife screams at me bc I never clean the kitchen. I clean it, then we fuck. Done and done.
Yikes. Well whatever works for you but I don’t like screaming or being screamed at.
Even during sex? People are different I guess. Don’t be afraid of expressing feelings. That leads to pent up anger. Nothing worse.