It's true but how can you move on so fast from a relationship that meant a lot to you? I remember I told my ex exactly what you said. At the same I was confused. Now and then I still put some thought into it, just that I don't let my self stay stuck with the same thoughts. I can only assure you what I felt. Whatever she felt is something I will never exactly know.
It did mean a lot and it hurt so much more but yunno sometimes you're just beyond ready to move on... Unlike others who "date" when still in a relationship or what most would call cheating, I waited until it was for sure 100% over and when I knew I moved on. We weren't married but imagine it like married couples who "separate' while going through the divorce proceedings. Divorce can take months or years.. it's like that. By the time we closed the books I wasore than 100% sure we were never getting back together so I was ready to move on.
Thanks for the MHO
What you did is understandable. If you were already separated, there was nothing left but the marriage. At least you were honest.The experience I had was unpleasant. She hides me for 1 entire year her new relationship, while still flirting with me and calling me by my pet name. We specifically end the relationship due to the distance and the time that passed. Her respond? "I taught you was seen someone from before we breakup". I never did do that. What's funny is that assume she was gonna give her self some time😅. Anyway, her dishonesty terminated any desire I had to be with her. Sometimes you don't get to know someone better, until the moment you cut all ties with that person.
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There are always exceptions but I really believe is the worst you can do after a breakup if the relationship was that meaningful.
It has nothing to do with a personal decision. The topic came to my mind after my ex told me she was seen someone shortly after our breakup (A few years ago, long story, no hate in between).It made me question how deep were her feelings for me. What made me mad wasn't that, it was a 1-year lie, yes, I knew all of that after 1 year, while she was acting all sweet with me, sending me hearts and still using the pet name she used on me (I can't even remember how she used to call me. Having a bad memory is not that bad after all😂). Anyway, I wish her the best and ✋ 🚫 contacting her.