Your last sentence is 100%dead on I'd wager.
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But when he's nice he makes me feel special
It seems most of the time he is not nice to u. Just stay away from him. try maintaining a distance. if u can't break up with at once coz u r emotionally attached to him. try to move away from him slowly. just break up wd him
@user1234t"But when he's nice he makes me feel special "The typical signature profile of an abusive person is to treat his victim nice at times so as to make them feel guilty if they break up with them. All the red flags are flying high on this one I'm afraid!
I have won, because I went away from my ex-friend (I knew him for +10 years). He cheated on money (670 EUR) on me. I left him because he was telling me he paid all already while he paid nothing. I'm straight, not to cause confusion. ;-)
@roland77 Yes, it’s the same with friends, good for you
Yes, thank you. Still the 670 EUR are missed everywhere but I came out not broken. So I won this one.
Not the cops i just get hurt too much and he doesn't realize
Yea I went through this in my last relationship and it was the worse yet... guess wut tho a better guy was waiting for me and we are happy.
But im so in love with the man i first met x
I get ya, but sometimes you have to let people go that you feel strongly for in order to move on to a better future. It's a hard truth
This is speculative: She might have given him no reason to have no/low trust in her. Maybe bad experiences not come over from last relationships. If I'm not over with the abuses my now-ex wife has done on me (both physical and psychological) I cannot date a new woman, because I would just see her as a tissue to dry up my tears.
I am certainly not condoning any negative behavior, no one deserves to be treated badly under any circumstance. We are human, we make mistakes, we try to learn and move forward.I was simply hoping to get a broader view of what was taking place.
if he asks jus say u dunno who did it
But he really can be nice he's just selfish and uses arguements from the past against me
I tell him all the time he doesn't listen
Then stop telling and actually kick him to the curb.
U behave as if u r so helpless. no body can help u if u dont help urself. stand up for urself. otherwise, u ll suffer. Dont let anyone take u for granted.
I keep telling him i think he's taking me for granted. He just doesn't change and gets annoyed when i expain how i feel
Than it's time to move on !
Well he can be nice and in love with him
Your in love with being in love.
Assholes cannot be avoided, sometimes you find it out years later how really the person is. But basically I agree with you what she should leave him.
Hun me fellas 29 its not dramatic
I guess he knows he is the first (maybe even virginity-removing) boyfriend to her and uses that against her. But this is only interpreted.
What does this mean?
I've tried telling him but he still is the same
Let's hope he will grow up one day, but sometimes selfish people don't after some point. They just remain selfish until they die.
How when im in love
You can't waste your time on someone who doesn't love you. I was in emotionally abusive relationship and I can't be happier that I left him