Thank you for the honest reply and exposing your heart to us.I think any good guy would be lucky to have you!
Thanks, that's really kind of you to say ❤️
Your answers are just too good! ... lol
You're so sweet! I really appreciate the encouragement. It's what I've observed relationships around me always crash and burn I've just gotten good at spotting problems. Daniel Sloss comedy set Jigsaw on netflix. Please watch it he does talk about relationships and he manages to ask the questions we're scared to know the answers to. It's interesting.
Sounds good :)
If you don’t care about her eventually finding someone else to marry then it means you don’t love her because if you did then you wouldn’t want to lose her.
But I don't and I don't stay with anybody long enough to develop that chemical imbalance women call love, I don't allow a woman to develop that emotional behaviour or labour, so what's your problem, is it that I can choose as much as you can and you don't like my choices or that my behaviour is becoming far more common now for men as they wake up to the world women have demanded and your realising that you don't like the monster you've created.
Lol I honestly don’t give a shit that you chose a bunch if slags. I have only been with one guy since I was 14, I married him and I am very happy with him. We both love each other very much and only believe in having one girl/boy in our life. See love when it is true only happens once but not everyone is lucky enough to actually fall in love. Perhaps you never have and that’s why you don’t understand it. My love for my husband is eternal and undying. It does sadden me to see that people think so ill of this beautiful emotion but it isn’t something that I can explain, it’s just felt and I am sorry you haven’t felt or understood it. Also, I don’t care about other men and their choices because I have my one and only and for us our only and only choice is each other. I was just curious by your thought process.
So then all your doing is trying to use shaming language to get me back into some form of slavery that women have decided is good enough for men, that we should be grateful for your shitty behaviour and attitude and you've done no more than prove me right. As for calling women slags, I actually find that offensive who do you think you are to label anybody are you really that holy and virtuous that you can seem yourself worthy to cast stones. I doubt even you have that privilege but it's not going to stop you claiming it though, now given you have nothing to say of value but to try to shame me into thinking the way you think I should why not concentrate on your own shitty marriage instead on using these forums to make yourself feel somewhat more superior. I doubt you have that much to feel superior about but I'm sure it's not going to stop you.
I am that holy because I have only been with one man who is my husband and I lost my virginity to him. I have not even been touched by any other man therefore yes I am that pure that I can say what I said and you are that stupid which is why you got hurt. Perhaps if you chose a pure and virtuous woman then you wouldn’t be so bitter today.
And all you've said means exactly what to me when the day comes you find out he's been banging your sister, fuck off with your virtue signalling bs if the question were about how well you behave then your perfectly entitled to answer but in this case it's just empty noise with no meaning you've never been rejected and never rejected so what then do you know other than to make yourself look good because your bored sat in you house playing families, I really don't care either about you or your life for what it's worth it means nothing to me at all.
What I am learning from some of the other replies is to make sure she is marriage material, like it is something that she is open to do.One guy said he dated a girl for 2 years and then when he asked her to marry him she said that she had no interest in ever getting married... something is not right with that story, like how could you date someone for 2 years and never know that?
I feel like, you know the time. They want to be around you and while cheesy, if they complete you, make you a better person that's a good sign
She should have said that before she wasted two years of his life.
@Sarahr123 Yes, totally!
You're welcome, thank you for another great opinion :)
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Very wise Ms SR, I like it :)
Sorry, I had to block that Jimmy guy, he was just getting too nasty and violating GAG rules
I wish someone would explain to me why you got down votes for that honest confession.Would someone expect you to accept a proposal just because he bought you a ring?It seems like there would be some general discussion of marriage or some indication that the other person would be up to it prior to any proposal, which you obviously didn't have, wouldn't there? ... what am I missing?Thank you for sharing that! :)
Yeah, I get down votes without any discussion for no discernable reason quite aggressively sometimes. Like my post hereWould you ever try an mfm threesome? ↗Best as I can figure its either someone on here who just doesn’t like me for whatever reason, or mouth-breathing neckbeards offended by the idea of a sexually active woman who doesn’t sleep with everyone who begs for it.
Yes, I've had similar in the past where some girl was stalking me and down voted every opinion I made, no matter how innocent it was. I could have said what a nice day it was and it would be down voted by her.Some people are just obsessively sick I think and don't have a life, it's sad.
Lol, a while ago for like two days straight, every single post I made had a single blue down vote. It’s like “seriously, is your life so insignificant you don’t have anything better to do?” Don’t think that bothers me as much as the guy like a week ago who would upvote and give like super positive responses to every single post I made.
How would we know you're sexually attractive? I don't think that crosses the minds of neckbeards. Being female is enough.Sincerely, a man with a well-shaven neck. Face too, but... you know.
@meesegoMoo what the shit are you talking about dude? Nobody said anything about my physical appearance.
In the second reply you said specifically that. First for you after your opinion.
@meesegoMoo you mean "idea of a sexually active woman who doesn’t sleep with everyone who begs for it.""active" not "attractive" but thank you for wasting my time with your illiteracy.
That one was on me! LOL. I can barely see (lots of eye damage), but I'm usually better at piecing things together than this.
Awe... that is sad :(
Well it was her loss in the end. I was named prom king 😁
That's too bad that you got cut off, but things like that always happen for a reason.There is a better girl out there waiting for you somewhere.
It'll get better some day, take your time to grief, of course you didn't lose her because she died or whatever but you still lost someone you cared deeply for. Maybe get some professional help too if that's what you need.
@TheIdiotManiac I totally agree with you.Mr Anonymous: In the end you will be thankful that you didn't marry her and then she did that to you, but I know it still hurts to have someone you love betray you. I am so sorry that happened to you :(
Wow. Thats awful. I'd say I'm sorry, but that won't fix anything.
Don’t cry over that bitch, you deserve better. Learn from this. Don’t go for another backstabber like her.
Geez, I’m sorry you had to deal with that shit. You’ll get someone better in the future. That was a shitty move on her end to toy with your emotions like that but I believe in karma. If she mistreated you she will reap what she sewed of one day having her heart broken.
Be glad for that. some people doesn't have any standards when it comes to playing with other's feelings. they will do anything to get their urges and fixes.
I just don't know how to move on because I do believe men take longer to get over breakups. She quickly moved on.
You need to realise she isn’t worth it I mean she didn’t even give a crap. Be really careful about the character of people you get involved with and let this be a lesson. You need to enjoy your life, there us a whole world out there! You don’t need any bitch like her. Count your lucky stars that fakeass is gone. You have fun, explore, travel, go shopping, go restaurants, go to museums and do things you enjoy. Meet with friends, find a series on Netflix to watch, find a new hobby or learn a new language. Someone perfect for you is waiting somewhere and you will meet her when the time is right and she will make you realise why it never worked out with any other idiot. Know your worth, you are a gem. Hang in there bro! You are amazing and you will be fine.
I usually say "Don't propose unless you already know the answer." In this case I can understand why you didn't know. 9 Years? Jeez. I feel you, man... I hope you're able to get back up soon!
Did you break her heart?
She didn't admit, but i think it hurt her. She understands tho, and is working to trying to heal her mental state.
I hope everything works out for you both... I think you are sweet!
You did the right thing for sure, that time is way too short, or course!Now you no longer date guys, only other girls?
I don't date guys and never dated guys. I am not homosexual. Those guys just randomly asked to marry me, and I told them no. Plus I didn't liked them, so there was no way I was even dating them either.
Plus one of those guys wanted to have me sued for something he did. Why would I be stupid enough to marry somebody who wanted to sue me? No way, jose.
Yes, that sounds very bizarre
Oh no! ... so now you are in a bad marriage?You are not being abused are you?
Emotional yes..Such is life!
No, that is not just life... it is just not allowable is what it just is.If you want it to stop, you can make that happen, but maybe you are ok with it?
Culture plays a shitty role in all this
Yes, I understand :(
Or she doesn’t want to marry you after 6 months lol
Watch as these creepy bitches come out to bite me. They are only interested in hurting you. Bite me bitches, bite, I know you.
Aren’t you a little old to be so bitter?
Grow up, you know? It’s creepy to try to wed someone in a very short time period.
Hahaha. Okay. Enjoy your little hobbit hole of unrealistic expectations, you wizard. I’ll be out here in the real world.
@SimpleRhubarb You were never in the real world and never will be.
Sure thing. Enjoy whatever you consider that to be, then.
The right one will find you :)
No..It's too late.. Lately I am finding idea of physical interaction with other people gross... I mean it been so long waiting for it to happen that I am slowly half way becoming AUTOSEXUAL.. It's painful but that's all I am left with.. At least I no longer ache feeling lonely and no longer linger for intimacy..
For real, I would hope this is possible to actually marry yourself, so that your marital status says MARRIED. May be favored in certain employment positions but I honestly don't think it's a factor. Imagine never getting divorced and your assets never being legally stolen.
Well, am pretty sure in a few years It Will be a trend (people marrying themselves)
Well, hopefully you found out without spending too much time in the relationship
We were together for nearly two years. Knew each other for a few years prior as friends.
Wow, and she didn't give you any indication that she was not marriage material during all that time?
Nope. Was pretty shitty of her to do.
I agree :(
Kind of a sobering way of putting things... lol
Brings it down to earth. Yes. 🤷🏾♂️
Why did you not have any other option?
Yes, but do you think that you're turning him down may have had anything to do with it? ... just wondering
I mean.. being turned down when asking someone to marry you could do that for sure. Its like, you are ready to just be with this girl for the remainder of your life and staying loyal to her because you are in love and she says no.There are just soooooo many reasons to why you wouldn't feel the same attractiveness in that person again.Not aaying cheating is alright by any means.
That's why you always go to the parents and ask their permission also... old school I know, but it is the best way because a marriage is 'into a family'
i disagree , not always
Yes you should ask the dad obviously it’s his daughter. If he says no then it’s a no.
@Sarahr123 Yes, I totally agree and then on the respect ladder the guy will shoot way near the top with the dad in most cases.That's the kind of son-in-law I would want if I was the mother
Me too, I would want such a son-in-law for my daughter too. If he respects his elders then he will treat my daughter well too.
You don't want a good boy to propose to you?
That’s not what I said whatsoever I don’t want to be married or proposed to at 23... a little early
OK, I understand now, thank you
I don’t think that 23 is early, I think that 21-25 is the perfect age for a girl to get married. After 26 seems a little late to me. We must remember that us women have biological clocks.
That’s fine I think 21-23 is early I have 3 weddings I am in between this summer and next summer from my friends getting engaged. More power to them. Also have a guy best friend who is divorced at 24. So to me it’s more so important to Get To Know that person shoot even live together first see if you can manage that’s all important to me than saying hey I’m engaged and young. Get married when you’re ready. Oh please that biological clock can be smashed.
My Cousin is 40 with her first child and got married for the first time at 38 that’s late af but hey people go at the pace they’re ready I’m sure she didn’t envision even having kids or a husband at that point. My point is I’m not settling for anything until I feel it’s right
Of course it is your choice when you get married, it’s something people have different opinions on. In my family all the women have their first child in their early 20s so I suppose I have just grown up thinking that getting married and having children young is the best way to do things but of course I understand that it’s not necessarily the way everyone does things. I know of many women who had their first child in their late 30s and preferred to focus on their career and themselves first. One should do whatever makes oneself happy.
Agreed. Everyone is different
She’s a bitch. Brown eyes are gorgeous.
Are girls allowed to turn down an arranged marriage proposal in Saudi Arabia?
Absolutely for me
Only for you? ... lol
No of course lol
Of course they’re allowed to. They see the guy and decide whether they like him or not and if they don’t then they won’t go ahead with it. Forced married is very different from arranged marriage.