I don't want any resentment. Thank you
You're probably right. It makes me sad because I feel like in love with him.
Oh a typo. I'm.
That's what I'm thinking too. But I hate the idea of leaving him. He's a great guy
I get how you feel, but I would recommend leaving before you get even more attached to someone who doesn't have the same goals unless you are willing to forego marriage. But you may wind up resenting him if it's something you genuinely want.
Yes and he doesn't get mad. Just says it isn't what he wants. He loves me though.
Ok but does he ever expect the two of you to live like husband and wife? Like living together, cooking, cleaning, etc. I always say “Don’t be a wife to a boyfriend.” To me, a man must earn the privileges of having a wife. But ultimately it’s up to you.
We haven't talked about living together yet. I'm worried about our future together now.
Yeah that’s understandable. If I were you, I’d really think about what kind of future you want, independent of what he wants, then communicate that to him. Think about your nonnegotiables. I’d hate for you to have settle for a life you won’t be satisfied with.
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It doesn't sound like you should have kids, if you don't want too. Who is making you?
I'm an only child, and a male, I HAVE to
I'm sorry. I don't know about a nongovernment marriage?
Oh, sorry. You are 21. My bad.
Most of my friends are my age and haven't gotten married yet.
Do I bring it up again?
Not for awhile. I'd wait around six months.
I don't think he will change his mind in that time.