What do you base attraction on?

I find most of my romantic interests begin with physical or psychological attraction but eventually the attraction dies down and I’m left with either a neutral or unfavourable lack of attraction to the person and this happens regardless of how incredibly desirable I initially find him. I guess what this means is I have to build my romantic interest on something other than looks or hype but not sure whether it’s intelligence or humour or another thing. Obviously character is important but I don’t know if it’s enough.
What do you base attraction on?
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