
Can you say you trust your partner 100% not to cheat on you?


- Anonymous+1 yIt is hard ro trust them. i ve seen in my long distance boyfriend's mylol and spotafriends app profile that he have chatted with over 600 girls. His prifile says"he is just looking for friends". If he is just looking for friends, then why is all his friend on those app only girls and not boys? And he goes to huge consert were there are a lot of girls who tries to flirt with him all the time. shouldn't that make me worried? And also Halloween last year at the university my boyfriend goes too, they were playing spinning the bottle, and a girl that was dared to choose someone to get loocked with in the bathroom for 1 minute. and she choosed to go with him (my boyfriend) to the bathroom for 1 minute. I asked him if they kissed or did Anything and he sayd nothing happened, and i just sayd i trust him. The truth is he is suspucious but sounds ao innocent, i can't question and confront him cause i have no proof. It is so annoying but i can't ask him that, i will just sound like a jalousy girlfriend.Is this still revelant?
To be honest, if he went to the bathroom with a girl, that's reason enough for you not to believe him he didn't do anything. WTF. He's full of shit. You should dump him before you get heartbroken so early on. And yes, don't believe guys who have lots of girl friends. I am currently with a girl who has lots of guy friends, and it's giving me the headaches. It's just too damn risky, and I know too many cases of cheating like that
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- Trust is very rarely the issue when it comes to jealousy in relationships. "You don't trust me" is nothing but an excuse used by toxic partners who like to push boundaries and engage in questionable behavior with other people of the opposite sex (even if they don't actually cheat), and still be able to justify it to their partners.
If anyone is reading this, and has a partner who does things that make you uncomfortable, and then attempts to shame you by accusing you of not trusting him/her, don't put up with that shit. You deserve better.
Sorry, had to get that rant out.Is this still revelant? - Yes, absolutely.
Anyone who answers anything less than 100% shouldn't be in that relationship. If you don't trust your partner, why the fuck are you still with them?Is this still revelant?In the words of the man, "Who do I trust? ME, that's who".
Trust is highly situational and levels of faithfulness ebb and flow with opportunity and the ups and downs of a relationship.If there was ever a point where I doubted my trust in my partner, I'd simply leave, but that's never happened, as neither of us have ever given the other a reason for doubt.
It's not that situational, it can be gained and lost is pretty straightforward ways.- Show All Show Less
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3258- People can never guaranty 100% but if you hit 90% you're on the verge of epic relationship status, you might make it.React
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- We can't trust 100% in someone since we are humans bound to fail once in a while.React
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- I don't currently have a girlfriend but I trusted my last girlfriend 100% to be faithful to me.React
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- Nah I don't but it doesn't really matter since we basically have a open relationshipReact
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- Not really , just pray you never find out is all I can say cuz we can’t predict someone’s actions , I am divorced cuz I busted my ex cheating on me after 12 years of marriage and it was a big shock to me cuz we were happy together , well I thought we were , I was devastated so my trust for girls hasn’t been the greatest , I pretty much had to learn to love a whole different way so when I date now I just tell the girl to make sure I don’t find out cuz if I do it’s over , most girls I have dated after my divorce were secretly married and cheating on their husbands so for me to settle ever again that girl is going to have to prove to me she isn’t a cheater to really gain my heartReact
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- I go into a relationship I give my partner options.
A option not to cheat, which mean I will give them 100% to keep my end of the relationship up.
I expect the same from the other half of the partner.
I go into a relationship with an option to communicate and listen and our cards on the table which means not to many surprises will pop up. We will know each other.
All this means with some of my options is it will be giving each hardly any room or any reason to cheat. Trust, love commitment, loyalty will be the options that's left.
If one or the other do cheat then cheating is part of their personality and the relationship ends.
If you don't have trust in a marriage or relationship what do you have? You have to be able to trust the one you love.
I was rejected one time because I never cheated before. She said," I couldn't trust you "! I understood hat she ment. She doesn't want her heartbroken again.ReactLike
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- Yes, not because I know for 100% sure (I don't know anything for sure) but I prefer to give the benefit of the doubt. It's like if I trust someone and they betray my trust, then I don't see what I did wrong. I'd be disappointed but guilt-free. If I don't trust someone though and treat them with suspicion and scare them away who was trustworthy, then I'm both disappointed and dealing with regrets for what I did wrong. I don't like to have regrets. So I choose to trust.React
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- Innocent until proven guilty. Whenever I meet someone new I give them a basic level of trust. I’m not going to give her my bank number but I’m not going to assume the worst about her.
If she’s dating me and we’ve both said we’re exclusive, I trust that she means if. I don’t fish for evidence of cheating and I don’t distrust her.
But oh man. If she breaks that trust, good luck getting it back.ReactLike
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- She would never cheat neither would I.
This woman is so madly in love with me so absolutely smitten. The feeling she gives to me by her attention and desire Acceptance of all things from my life past, current, and obligations I’m taking care of. Her deep desire to be loved and sexually satisfied has finally been her dream come true. Yeah we’re good. Nobody could get in between this.ReactLike
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- Imagine growing up in a society where men are displayed as cheaters, where at a young age you see with your own eyes men being unloyal to their partners... Even my own father got 2 women pregnant and cheated on my mom. I once told my mom that I believe not all men cheat but she discouraged me and said that they all are tempted. I believe not all men are the same... But I'm starting to lose hope... To the point where I feel if I get a partner what will I do if he cheats? Did I expect it? Should I be mad? Should I go crazy on him like i intended to or what? I try to think that not all men are the same but I'm slowly losing hope. So I won't fully trust my partner to not cheat, I'll expect it but I'll try to trust him. But if he does cheat I guess I was wrong for putting my trust in men.React
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That's a hard situation to be in, when even from a young age, you saw so much cheating going on around you. I can understand why it could be hard for you to trust guys when you get in a relationship of your own. But hopefully none of the guys you get involved with will be anything like your father. Good luck!
Don't make it about trust in the whole gender. It's always about the one person you're dating. I'm sure not all women cheat, and not all men cheat.
- The more paranoid you act. The more likely your partner will feel distrusted and actually be more tempted to cheat.
There was one girl I dated years ago who trusted me 100%. Never questioned me about my Vegas trips. I did have a few opportunities to cheat (and I admit I was tempted) but I didn’t. I respected my girlfriend for trusting me.ReactLike
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- This is going to be funny. I currently dont have a partner. I do know that my queen will never cheat on me and would never betray me. As how I am keeping it real she would keep it 100 % so yeah I know she will willl never betray me. I dont know who she or where she is or what she is doing right now but when she is going to meet me she is going to give at all to me lololReact
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- I never have trusted anyone 100% in my life because I have met too many liars and cheaters. Even when I’m in a relationship I feel indifferent. I probably gave up on jealousy and I don’t feel in love any more - even when in a relationship. I think I can trust at some point but I cannot see the future. Even the most reliable man/woman can fall into a trap of cheating. I’m not bothered about unfaithfulness any more. I think if a person looks for sex with someone else then your love was never real - probably your relationship was not stable either.
Maybe I don’t make sense for some. I feel depressed about relationships - I see too many people failing relationships while some stay together. What I used to admire about couples has vanished. It’s all fake. Real love like in movies is fake. It cannot be experienced in real life.ReactLike
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- There's never 100% trust. I don't trust the meat vendor 100% not to poison me because of reptilian delusions (only 99% because that's very unlikely). But I trust my wife as much as I'm able to trust another human being. She'd divorce me before going through with an act of adultery, and as much as that would be terrible - it isn't cheating.React
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Would you also divorce her before cheating on her? Are you not the one who cheated on his exs? How can your wife even trust you?
I cheated on two abusive cunts, and I'd do it again. My wife isn't an abusive cunt or I wouldn't have married her. It took me longer than average to learn how to recognize abusive cunts and even longer to learn how to defend myself. I never cheated out of weakness, it was always a premeditated act of vengeance.
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I have had a little respect for but after learning that you are cheating male hoe, you loose all my respect. You are the one who always crtisize women being a hoe. Do you marry at least someone like you?
Can you explain what you mean with abusive women? How were they abusive? And would you be ok if your wife had cheated on her several exs?
- Absolutely trust your partner not to cheat on you is setting yourself up to disappointment and disillusionment. You should instead accept the possibility of that happening and be prepared to deal with the issue in the most constructive manner should it arise.React
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- Physically, 100%
Emotionally, not as positive. We’re only recently, after separating, on the same page as to what that constitutes. So he says anyway... time will tellReactLike
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Who do you think he would cheat on you emotionally with? How did you end up having that suspicion?
@RemoErdosain he’s created inappropriately intimate relationships with women he works with and when I voiced I was uncomfortable with it he chose to hide it instead. We work at the same place, and it’s happened several times over the years
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@RemoErdosain taking them out for lunch one on one and paying for them while failing to mention it, saying how attractive their bodies are, text messaging and Snapchat for hours at home instead of spending time with his family (after having been at work with them all day) and calling them on the way to work at 7am for a 40minute conversation before he gets there
- No that's why I'm now polygamous because they're going to cheat at some point. People will only be faithful and loyal for so long. I will never fall for a monogamous relationship again to put all of my faith and trust in one guy to be faithful to me only for him to screw me over and make me look like a fool for being "loyal" to a guy who had multiple women all at once. Monogamous relationships just put you at risk of vulnerability of being played and heart broken.
#NEVER AGAINReactLike
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- I feel like it's more tempting to doubt at times. But it's good to learn to trust. Because I believe trust helps to build the relationship.React
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- If I didn't trust the person I'm with 100% then I'm not dating them for long.
I've been in an open relationship too no problems from either of us. Because the trust was rock solid.ReactLike
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