Is this a toxic relationship?

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My boyfriend got nudes from three girls and hired a stripper with all his friends (over the course of two years) and last night i kissed someone because i was so hurt and i wanted him to hurt too and we’re both so hurt but so in love what do we do

Answer 1

CapricornHoney

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It certainly doesn’t sound like a healthy relationship. Did he receive the photos while in a relationship with you? Did he ask for them or was he just sent them? I really think you should talk to him about how you’re feeling about all of this.

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it was while we were in the relationship but like a year into it and it’s been a year but everything built up for me and last night i did that and i felt so shit like i’m not that type of person too ever cheat on anyone and it goes against all my morals. i saw him tonight and we were both crying but decided that this was a new start but i don’t know because i know he’s so hurt and so am i
CapricornHoney

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Ok, it seems like he is willing to move passed everything and work on being better for the relationship. The question you need to ask yourself is if you’re happy with this decision and if you can trust him. If you feel you can’t trust him, there probably isn’t much hope for the relationship.

Answer 2

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it was while we were in the relationship but like a year into it and it’s been a year but everything built up for me and last night i did that and i felt so shit like i’m not that type of person too ever cheat on anyone and it goes against all my morals. i saw him tonight and we were both crying but decided that this was a new start but i don’t know because i know he’s so hurt and so am i

Answer 3

CapricornHoney

Ok, it seems like he is willing to move passed everything and work on being better for the relationship. The question you need to ask yourself is if you’re happy with this decision and if you can trust him. If you feel you can’t trust him, there probably isn’t much hope for the relationship.

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Nathan65

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I would suggest you to make him friend with benefits. This is not a healthy relationship

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Arjunaguy | 128 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

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You should leave each other and move on this isn't a relationship it's a hook up

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Nachowedgie | 1.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Guru

I would suggest yous break up cuz you're clearly not ready to be dating anyone

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ItsTheNephilim | 1.5K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

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He doesn't love you. And yes, it's toxic af.

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