When should I ask him about the future of our relationship?

Anonymous
my boyfriend is about to go abroad for a long time , since he didn't make up his mind about leaving due to his family he's so stressed , when I asked him :what about us? what will happen to us? will we break up or no? he tells me please I'm so stressed right now stop it. So when should I reask the question again :before he leaves or after he leaves?
When should I ask him about the future of our relationship ?
Before he leaves
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When should I ask him about the future of our relationship ?
After he leaves
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